I had to take a break from my normal schedule and share with you a recent comment that was made to one of my articles, “Top 10 Reasons Nice Guys Never Get Women”. Before we start this is an article I wrote a while back and posted on several sites. This morning I received a notice that someone had left a comment so out of curiosity I decided to click the link.

 I scroll to the bottom to read the comment and here is what I read:

“1. i hate them all
All this article does is tell me how “men have to change to get women to l;ike them”. Its funny how we are always asked to change who we are in order to be offered love. But women are okay as they are. All this article does is make me hate women, all of them. And hate this society for its unequal treatment of men.”

I can’t get over how much pain and loneliness I was able to read in this comment. I felt horrible for this guy because he had given up on women.

I can’t fully wrap my mind over the sense of loss this guy must feel. Can you imagine going through life with this outlook on women?

What is his alternative – to go gay?

I am convinced that this man needs an intervention so to speak and more importantly to stop blaming women. He blames women for his fucked up life and he must rid his mind and inner voice from that poison.

I myself have been lonely in my life. I will be the first to admit that through my teenage years and a good part of my twenties I was awkward with women BUT I CHOSE TO CHANGE! I stopped blaming people and started to better improve my life.

There is nothing worse than choosing not to do something when help is right there. There is noting to be embarrassed in saying “Yes I want to get better with women.”

Unfortunately there are deeper issues at hand for this guy that left me that comment. It’s obvious his confidence is non-existent and worst of all he gave up. I honestly pray that he can get out of that mindset but he must first take action.

It’s all about change – changing for the better. Instead of the negative approach of telling yourself, “why do I need to change to get girls?” Instead employ the attitude of “Wait a minute if I do this I will get hotter chicks? Game on!!”

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I hope you enjoyed the last post about getting off your ass and seeing the power of what online dating can do for your dating life.

Now that you decided which dating site to join it’s now time to create a profile that will sizzle and attract women. Remember one important rule: Your profile is meant to portray confidence, humor and intrigue. It’s no different with offline dating these are the major characteristics women look for in men.

Okay here are 5 important elements that go into a killer profile:

1) This may seem obvious but nothing spells “loser” than a poorly written profile with misspelled words. Always use the spell checker you have with your word processor and read it out loud before you post

2) Don’t ever write about past relationships in your profile! Don’t ever talk about bad experiences and how you are now looking for true love. This is a guarantee way for no women to click on or respond to your profile.

3) Your profile is meat to be at most a paragraph that means not spilling your whole life story. Keep some details out and add a little bit of mystery about you. It’s okay to talk about some of your hobbies and maybe some of your travels but never offer the whole picture. A little intrigue will go a long way.

4) You must be positive! If you are really serious about online dating you need to show positive qualities. Avoid at all costs writing anything negative about your life. Your profile must read as if you are having a great time. Think about it what real women would want to read your negative profile and respond to it? No one wants to hear it let alone read it.

5) Inject a little humor in your profile. Humor is the #1 aphrodisiac in attracting women. This can easily be done by writing something witty about yourself or even the type of women you are looking for. It’s not enough to say you can a sense of humor you also need to show it.

Well there you have it! These are simple tips to follow when writing your online dating profile. Your profile will be a breath of fresh air and most likely attract the caliber of women you are seeking.

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Continuing with the idea that you don’t have to spend that much money on a date, today’s post will be focused on using the internet to boost you numbers.

Let’s face it most Americans are connected and a good large portion are using Yahoo! Personals, Match, Lavalife to find a date. The trend is growing with a multitude of smaller sites all dedicated to particular niches. If you are not on a dating site yet – WTF ARE YOU WAITING FOR!

Stop sitting home alone and post your profile online.

What makes this so incredible is that you don’t have to spend that much money at all when you are contacting these women. Provided you have a badass profile and followed the steps in the Online Game, you will be meeting way more women using this method.

This comes in handy especially for you guys that don’t have much money to spend or on a strict budget.

Once contact is made and you initiate a time and place to meet – you can go for a cup of coffee. Don’t worry, she will not laugh at the idea nor will be question you. If she has the nerve to question you about this choice suggesting you’re cheap there is your first indicator on the kind of girl she is.

Here are the 5 components for killer dating profile:

1. Well written dating profile
2. Photo
3. User name
4. Email contact
5. Having fun

 Stay tuned for the next couple of weeks I will share with you what makes a great profile and what goes in a great 1^st email contact.

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It doesn’t take a genius to figure we are in a recession and we are cutting back on all our expenses to pay the bills. For many of us this recession may be wrecking havoc with your dating life but it shouldn’t.

No matter what economy you should never spend loads of money on a woman especially on the first date. All you do is lower yourself in her eyes she begins to look at you like an ATM machine.

In fact on your first date I recommend you don’t spend much at all. I personally take my first date somewhere cheap – a coffee shop.

Yep, a cup of coffee can do wonders simply because you can talk face to face and get to know each other.

Simply sit down and talk and find some commonalities and see for yourself if you actually like this girl. You may find that your date was nothing like the girl you met at the bar or club and can’t wait to excuse yourself and go home. She may be a Satanist, racist, casual drug user etc. etc. Pay attention and see what her personality is like.

All you want to do at this point is to talk and see if this is the type of girl you want to see a second time.

Be cool and just offer to pay the bill, say something like, “Don’t worry it’s no big deal.” At most you’ll spend $10 bucks for coffee and a couple of scones. Point is to not be a cheap ass and play it cool.

Your dating life shouldn’t be affected by the recession all that much all you need to do is find venues around your area that are fun and cheap.

Believe me your date won’t know the difference because she’s having too much fun.

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Have you been debating going online using some of the popular dating services or even thought about using social sites to meet women? Luckily Derek Lamont has just released, “The Online Game” that dives into the art of online dating. Lets see if he an really show us how these online pick up secrets can really boost our numbers.

I will say that I wasn’t interested in reading this ebook simply because my own experiences with online dating was dismal and I had far better results going out with friends than I did online.

For those if you that think online dating is a waste of time or you are too cool.
a) You’re wrong
b) Get over yourself

What I found most useful was the section that details what your profile must look like. After reading this section I now understand why my profile sucked. I didn’t do anything that Derek Lamont teaches and as a result I had zero success.

He also goes into a simple strategy of a great photo and how to improve your body language and what women look for. Derek Lamont goes into detail on how to make you look like a real catch in her eyes.

Okay now you have a great profile and finally found several women you are ready to contact but have no idea what to write. Here is were most men screw up the ice-breaker. Derek Lamont makes the obvious point that these women receive a ton of emails so it’s important to keep it short and separate yourself from the pack.

Side Note: Online Pick Up Secrets provides several samples that you can borrow from.

I personally wasn’t too crazy about using instant messaging in contacting women because I don’t have the patience to sit in front of the computer and send messages – but that’s me. I have several friends that can text and IM all day.

My favorite chapter in Online Pick Up Secrets is the advice in handling the initial phone contact. Let’s face it, this is the most crucial yet most difficult part, without this you’ll never meet her face to face and your efforts are wasted.

Summary:
Bottom line is that Online Pick Up Secrets is a good product. This dating eBook delivers and there is no other like it in the market. Despite a couple of points Derek Lamont makes that I disagree with, I was impressed with the online dating tips he put forward and recommend it to anyone who wants to add online dating in their repertoire.

Rating: 10 / 10

Pros:

• Only product of its kind
• 8 week money back guarantee
• Instant download
• Bonuses

Cons:

• I thought the Instant Messaging technique was annoying.

Grab your copy of Online Pick Up Secrets and get the edge you need to succeed!

I really hope you enjoyed this review and has given you some ideas in getting more dates. This should also give you great practice when approaching women as well. Remember the more women that are in front of you the more experience you gain.

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