I got an email over the weekend from someone that basically was wondering how he lost his girlfriend only after three months of dating. In short he did everything he was supposed to do with the initial pick up thinking his job was over hoping she would stick around.

Sorry it doesn’t work that way. Sure you did a good job attracting her but if you don’t keep it going her initial feelings of attraction will fade away.

So begs the question: How do you keep her?

Don’t turn into a pussy! I’m serious – how many freaking times has one of your friends totally disappear when they have a girl and then all of the sudden three months later they call to hang out?

Never devote all you time and energy to be with her. Have your friends and hang with the boys, have a life outside your girlfriend. Make it a point to never be taken for granted. Besides after a while she will feel bored and start looking elsewhere – searching for that same feeling when you swept her off her feet.

To keep things exciting be unpredictable and do different things and so I’m not talking expensive dinners. When I lived in NYC we had the “Village Voice” which listed all the new hotspots, café’s, theaters, outdoor fairs, concerts going on.

I used it all the time to think of something cool to do. Trust me when I say it worked like a charm.

All I’m saying not to get lazy and complacent – I got burned by not keeping the fire going.

I can almost guarantee as long you keep the attraction going that girl won’t go nowhere. Another piece of advice you may also want to be just as adventurous in bed. Don’t kid yourself women love sex – just as much as guys do. Don’t be a selfish lay she will get bored of that too.

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Okay we have seen our fair share of dating sites and online dating niches out there but this one just has one purpose – hooking up! Yep Onlinebootycall.com is another dating site but it doesn’t beat around the bushes at all with its intent.

My only problem with casual dating sites like these is that there is a higher rate of profiles where the photo is not really that person you’re checking out or it’s a scam where it’s a guy pushing some bull crap product on you. You sign up scan the profiles make contact and some will come back with an email saying, “no thanks have a committed boyfriend but check this out…”

That just annoys the hell out of me. Or even better the photo is clearly that of a model.

On a personal level I would rather go for someone who is a little more serious about the relationship. I could never take a woman seriously on a site like that and would never make her my girlfriend. You really have to start believing you are worth more and deserve a good woman.

However if you are in a point in your life where you simply don’t care and want to cut to the chase – this may be a gold mine for you. There is nothing wrong with casual dating however on the flipside I would urge some caution. If the photo looks like its magazine quality then move on, it’s probably a fake profile.

If you do establish contact I would actually still do a coffee date and make the effort to get to know her. You want to make sure she isn’t a weirdo – the last thing you need is any complications in your life. (I feel that’s a requisite for any date.)

If there is only one photo in that profile do yourself the favor and request some more pics – obviously you also offer some additional photographs.

Until then have fun hooking up and use the opportunity to fine tune and practice your skills. The more practice you have under your belt the better you’ll become with women. Eventually those little successes will build up your self confidence.

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Flirt Mastery – How To Flirt & Sexually Communicate With Women!

Most of the issues I had was ultimately with my self confidence because I saw how some of my friends handled themselves with women. It looked so easy – when they did it but when I wanted to open my mouth and say something it didn’t work out so well.

What I’m talking about is flirting and for some reason that skill didn’t click with me for some time. I leaned how to flirt with women over a long period of time until I developed my own way. Let me say that flirting is the fastest way to attract women hands down.

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I can remember not that long ago I was in a bar with a friend of mine and we were scoping out the scene have a good time and my buddy excuses himself to the restroom. No big deal right? Well while he’s away I spot these really 2 cute chicks by a table and I’m thinking “damn the one in the blue top is my type”.

But at that moment I say to myself I’ll wait for my bro to come back then I’ll make the move. Of course it doesn’t work that way and to my anger I see two other guys swopped right in. What a total missed opportunity!

All because I placed my condition for success on my wingman who had to take a piss.

Was it his fault? Not at all – it was mine for placing way too much emphasis on a wingman which it fact it was all up to me.

Sure a wingman will take the edge off and run interference for you but at the end of the day don’t allow your success to depend entirely on him. Remember that your wingman is there to provide support, you still have to make the move.

As an alpha male you want to be independent and self reliant free from conditions to your success. However this isn’t to say that I’m against having a wingman – after all they do serve a purpose and come in handy.

On a personal level the best kind of wingman is a wingwoman. Yep you heard right I have partied with wingwomen before and they were able to infiltrate social circles a guy normally can’t. Women are more than happy to help you hook up and you look like a guy who’s in demand. Bottom line is that women notice men that are with other women.

So here’s the deal – next time you’re out and you see a cute girl you want to approach do it! Wingman or no wingman it doesn’t matter – you write your own play book.

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Neuro-Linguistic Programming seemed to be the rage by some ‘dating experts’ all touting the magic of saying some words and somehow you were able to hypnotize these women with no effort.

There are several programs on the net that all promise their NLP technique will have you getting laid in a matter of minutes! I have also come across some programs that teach hypnosis to get the woman you desire.

I am going to tell you right now it’s all bullshit! Why do you have to come from a place of weakness and think the only way to get a girl is through manipulating her?

What does that say about you?

You don’t need that phony NLP crap – all you need is to be fun, genuinely like people and your personality will be the center point your “game” comes from.

However you do need to know how to talk to women correctly. Luckily it doesn’t include NLP or hypnosis or anything else these jackasses are trying to push on you. All you need to know is how to flirt with women.

Flirting with women is downright fun and will create an instant attraction between you and the girl you are talking to. If your communication skills are weak with women due to lack of experience you must tweak current your focus (what you want) learn the basics of conversation and display alpha male body language. 

All the above can be mastered in a short period of time and the best part is you aren’t being fake or changing who you are.

So to that end I urge you to stay away from any NLP seduction or hypnosis course. Let the beta males looking for a quick easy solution waste their money. Instead learn how to flirt with women and you’ll find far more success!

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Be honest what is your current social life like? Do you usually stay home and watch hours and hours of TV or worse play video games for 20 hours straight? I don’t have to tell you that women like fun guys and leading a dull life will not make you interesting.

GET A LIFE!

If you sit home all day watching TV you really can’t complain why you have no social life or a girlfriend. Seriously if you are a homebody what the hell are you doing? You are stuck in rut and you need to dig yourself out from that and start meeting some new people. If you want to meet new people you have to start with creating a social life.

You must start getting out of the house and away from your comfort zone. There is probably a ton of things to do in your immediate area that you don’t know about.

Sitting on your ass playing video games for hours will not help your dating or social life whatsoever.

Chat rooms are another excuse to stay home and do nothing. So what if you are chatting and mastered texting you aren’t talking to women.

Don’t be afraid to get out there and make new friends. Yes, that means actually gong out even by yourself if you have to and meeting new people.

Join a club or start taking guitar lessons in your community college – who knows there may be really cute women in the class or some really cool people. Don’t be ashamed if you have few friends – the only shame is not doing something about it.

Another thing a highly recommend you do is to open an online dating account and start going out on dates. This is the easiest way to start dating attractive women fast.

It’s not that difficult to create a new social life for yourself but you actually have to take action and do something. No one will go up to you looking to be your friend – it’s you that must make the effort.

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Asking a girl out can be really nerve wracking simply because you don’t want to get rejected. No man wants to be rejected so it’s important not to let her frame it as a date.

When you ask a girl out on a date you automatically convey interest and she will be on guard. What if it’s a girl that you will continually see? (Like that girl in your class or a chick you work with). Then it’s going to make things weird between you both.

Luckily there is a way to catch her off guard and make it totally innocent.

I use one method with a lot of success by “inviting” her to day time lunch, house party, after work for drinks with friends etc.

All you are really doing is inviting her with you to something you already planned to do. You look like a guy that does fun stuff and she’s coming along for the ride.

If you are planning to meet up with friends for drinks on a Saturday afternoon by the beach to watch the big game – invite her along. (This works great if she’s a sports fan)

Suppose you are going to an outdoor fair with friends you can use the same “invite” tactic. As far as how to ask her it can be something like: “We are going to the fair to check out this really cool band that is playing — why don’t you come along, it will be fun.”

It’s that simple! Just customize to whatever you are doing it doesn’t matter if she declines. You are going anyway and it doesn’t sound like a ‘date’. You can use this sneaky dating tactic in just about any situation – you’ll get a lot more dates this way.

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I want to take a break away from the normal dating tips I share and bring to light the tragedy that occurred in Germany.

I’m sure by now most of you have heard the school shooting that took place by a former high school student that went on a rampage killing 15 people. I can’t imagine the pain the families must be going through but I couldn’t help but wonder what the hell was wrong with the shooter.

Of the 15 people killed in that high school 11 were female. So what made this withdrawn shy kid finally snap? Obviously it was depression and a host of other mental health issues he never took care of.

I just shook my head at this story after realizing that it was women he hated and felt it was necessary to shoot them like a coward.

I can’t fathom the pain this guy must have felt from loneliness only to fester into a deep depression he couldn’t dig out from. What a waste of a life and more importantly the devastation he left behind.

It’s obvious to me that this kid was most likely very shy and awkward in social situations and probably was bullied and teased by the other students. I am also willing to bet he had little success with the girls in his class. All this is not good for the mental health of a young teen is just trying t get through school with good grades but pile all this external crap on him and he was bound to snap.

I would ask that everyone just take a moment and say a prayer for the lives lost from this awful tragedy.

My thoughts and prayers to the families.

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In the past couple of months I have been talking about getting over your approach anxiety and boosting your self confidence.

Remember from my previous lessons that the only way this will happen is by following through and taking action. Create a 30-day plan to actually say “Hi” to women you see in the store, the cute girl behind the gym counter or anyone else for that matter.

This 30-day exercise will diminish your anxiety and eventually you will be more comfortable around the opposite sex.

Now you feel comfortable approaching women and made the initial small talk and built a friendly rapport.
 
Now you’ve got to get down and flirt with her to arouse her feelings and emotions. Flirting is your verbal kung-fu with women. Here is the bottom line: Most girls need to feel something for a guy to get physical. There is no way around it and your verbal game is the key.
 
If you feel your verbal skills are lacking don’t worry you just need to tweak what you already have. Trust me when I say it’s really not that hard.
 
Once you learn how to push her emotional buttons you will start attracting far more women in a shorter period of time. Flirting with women is a learned skill but it doesn’t involve memorizing canned lines or one liners. It’s all how you communicate with women on a far more deep level that arouses her emotions.
 
Let’s get one thing clear here women don’t want to hear about how many levels you were able to achieve on Halo 3, your job or your car. This is what beta males do to qualify themselves to women. Turn it around to make women qualify themselves to you!
 
Flipping the script so to speak basically involves you becoming the man she wants by telling interesting stories, you are exciting and interesting. I never suggest lying to women it will get you no were quick. Nor do I suggest you lose your identity – all you need to do is borrow from your current experiences and create an exciting backdrop with those them.
 
That’s the key.

I will keep this brief today but there is still a LOT more you can learn on flirting with women. So if you’re eager to get ahead of the pack, there is some powerful advice in Steve Scott’s eBook Flirt Mastery. 
 
This is not an eBook with useless one liners and canned stories. This eBook will teach you how to converse with women and ignite that sexual spark.
 
If you prefer to download a sneak peak before buying here is the 90 page FREE edition (right – click “save as”).

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Chivalry – ah yes the age old practice of opening doors or helping with her jacket etc. seems like something of the past. You really don’t see too much of that and we have the feminist movement to thank for that.

Of course it’s just my opinion but hear me out. Women got sick and tired of being treated like 2nd class citizens and demanded equal rights – that’s okay.

Then your die hard feminist decided to make it a point and even got offended when men would offer the door or pull out a chair and so on. They simply didn’t want to be treated any different just because they were women.

More and more women are in schools and working in high level jobs giving them far greater independence then the women a generation before. However at the same time this modern progression distorted the perception of young boys and how they should treat girls. With gender roles changes ever so rapidly chivalry seems like something of the past.

Which brings us back to the question….Is Chivalry Really Necessary These Days?

The answer is there is never a time NOT to show good manners. To put it bluntly there is nothing wrong with being chivalrous. However I will argue that you should never make it a point to be chivalrous and make a scene. I am chivalrous but I offer it in doses. I don’t do it all the time so she gets used to it, but just enough so she can appreciate every time.

So the next time you with your women or on a first date even – open that door or offer your arm when walking down the street.

I’m willing to bet big she hasn’t had that in a long time. For those thinking that a true “bad boy” wouldn’t be chivalrous to a woman. You are wrong! Bad Boys are the way they are because they challenge women stirring up their emotional buttons. They aren’t jerks to women.

Let me repeat “bad boys” aren’t jerks to women. A true bad boy will still open the door for his women. He is challenging her and at the same time protecting her making her feel safe. Now that is a lethal seduction combination!

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