So you are looking to have an endless supply of women to have sex with but you don’t “The Secret” behind it all. Is it some esoteric thing floating out there available to a few men?

I say NO!

There are many so called PUA’s out there that want you to think they know it all and are in possession of this knowledge of attracting women but that’s not the case. So why is it that it’s always up to men to make the approach and for some of us difficult?

Here is the explanation once and for all: Social norms dictate it’s the man’s duty to make the first move. Blame it on our cave man forefathers or society, just accept it and move on.

Secondly – why is it difficult for many men to attract women or say the right things? Just look at teenage girls – they start reading Cosmo and other magazines that basically teach them to do A, B, and C to attract men when they get older. They start very young and to top it all off girls are natural born communicators.

Boys don’t have any real training nor are natural born communicators (generally speaking). For some of us we figure it out very soon and become very good with women – really good. It seems they have this harem of women no matter what.

So what was it that these guys figured out early on that led them to an abundant sex life?

They accepted rejection and moved on. That’s it! Whenever a young girl or woman rejected them they never once let it bring them down or dwelled on it. They didn’t give a shit if she said no – all he did was turn to the next chick and hit on her.

This constant approaching and rejection allowed them to fine tune their skills and made them ready for any bitch shield that was thrown at them. Approaching women and getting good at it – required a lot of practice.

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Hello guys – glad to be writing again to you all and giving tips and advice on improving your dating life. Before I start I just want to say I hope your weekend was fun – gotta say I partied just a little too hard Friday and Saturday.

Okay I want to talk to you guys about having a “Plan B” when you are dating the women in your life. Yes I said “women” there is nothing wrong dating more than one if you so choose - the more you do it the better you’ll develop unstoppable confidence quickly.

What do I mean about having a – Plan B? Basically I’m talking about controlling the setting and having more than one place in mind to take her.

Side Bar: Always be the leader and make the plans don’t just say “Oh we can do what you want”. That’s lame! You will look not only clueless but also look like a wussy. It’s okay to take charge she won’t be offended.

Having more than one place to take her serves several purposes: 1) It could have closed down 2) You want to avoid your ex or hers 3) There are million and one other reasons to list here.

Point is to always have a backup plan in case the one you made doesn’t pan out. Here is an example why this is important. A couple of weeks ago I met up with my old roommate for drinks for happy hour. As we were talking she mentioned that this other place with great happy hour but it closed down that very week.

Now think here for a moment – you may have a guy wanting to meet his lady for cheap cocktails and when they meet up – the bar is closed. Now what does he do? Whips out Plan B and like no big deal he makes it happen.

I want to urge you to avoid the whole club thing – look they are loud as hell and there are guys that will trying to pick up your chick when you take a piss. Why create hurdles for yourself?

When I meet a girl for the 1st time over coffee I will always have two other coffee shops nearby I can rely on – the next being more unique than the last.

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Okay I’m going to break away a little from posting about online dating and touch on this subject of the economy and dating. Why am I doing this? Because just like you I’m feeling a very slow economy and yesterday when I was writing out my check, my flesh began to crawl.

I know we are feeling the pinch here with this crappy economy and it’s not easy – trust me I was laid off back in April and was unemployed for 3 weeks. Talk about shitting bricks and having to worry about how you’ll pay the rent isn’t fun.

Perhaps you may feel that you must be making beacoup bucks in order attract women – NOT TRUE!

I will be the first to say that women are attracted to men with money. Yes it’s true, just accept that simple undeniable fact. For women it represents security and safety that a man with money can provide.

However, you can still attract those same hot women without money as well. In this economy you can get away with going out and still not spend a lot of money. Case in point: Yesterday I was invited my old roommate to happy hour and this expensive steak house.

Here was the best part – the happy hour menu was $5 for an array of foods from 4:30 pm – 6:30 pm. Here another thing during happy hour there are a ton of women out there as well. You can’t lose in this situation – you can spend $25 on food and drinks and still meet women!

You don’t have to spend a lot of money or have a lot of money in order to attract women – you should however have some ambition in your life. Women are very forgiving but when it comes to lack of ambition it will translate to a man with no balls.

All you need to do is look for fun inexpensive things to do (which is not hard) and you will score some huge points with her. When I was living in NYC I would always pick up the Village Voice and see what’s hot that wouldn’t burn a hole in my pocket.

I hope this helps with your dating life. It will also help to be a little more proactive when looking for new things to do where you can meet women.

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What a weekend – I helped my buddy and his wife move and you’d be surprised at how much crap two people can store. Seriously!

Anyway back to business. Last week we talked about getting your emails read by the women you are contacting online. Like I mentioned until you perfect them I strongly suggest you email women that are a little outside your area so you don’t burn the ones that are closest to you.

But now you have a couple of women respond to you and you have moved beyond the first or second phone call. Now you have to ball up and ask her out but you don’t want to come off too needy, stupid or like some inexperienced jackass.

So, how do you ask her out without using the words – “Will you go out with me?”

There is one very easy solution. Don’t ask her out! In my opinion you are better off in being direct by saying “Hey, I enjoyed talking with you lets meet up somewhere and get to know one another a little bit better.” For the first meet I suggest a coffee shop.

See – very simple no need for magic one liners or some other lame canned openers. A woman will appreciate a man who’s direct rather some cheesy line she can look right through.

Just remember after a couple of emails you should get her phone number and from there get her to meet you in public. Whatever you do don’t use the word date. There is no need to be nervous at this point, if she responded to your email then she’s interested.

I hope this helps with your online dating success. I open to new ideas and suggestions don’t be shy and share your thoughts!

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I want to introduced you to Nico Simon Princely of Pick Women Up Online He has put together an incredible resource that will show how to attract women online using MySpace. What I like about Nico is that he’s genuine, NOT full of crap like so many other PUA’s polluting the net.

In fact he argues that the absolute #1 place to meet women on line is a site you are probably on already but just never bothered to calibrate it to meet women.

What I walked away with the most is that he gives you all the tricks in crafting the perfect emails and subject lines so they don’t get ignored. This guy really knows his shit when it comes to attracting women online.

Here is a peek as to what you will learn from his starter course:

• His secrets to getting women to respond to your e-mails and e-mail you back.
• The secrets to picking up women on Myspace, Bebo, Facebook, Hi5 and more!
• The Top 10 mistakes most men make when trying to meet women online!
• The different kinds of women online and what you must know about them in order to be successful in picking them up.

Here is the best part about Nico’s Pick Up Women Online Starter Kit – it’s 100% free! Yes – I subscribed and got a report right away but a week later he sent me a link with a login for all this stuff. The best part I didn’t pay squat for it.

Why is he giving this away for free when he could easily charge for it? Beats the hell out of me – but hey to each his own.

So what is the catch? Subscribe to his newsletter and that’s it.

Again to take advantage of this free offer with no obligation is to visit Pick Up Women Online and subscribe – it’s that easy.

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I get this question all the time from my readers; what is the best photo to upload onto my dating profile?

This is a great question that deserves some further insight and explanation. Whatever you do never take a photo of yourself in the mirror with your cell phone (especially shirtless). I can careless if you have a sixpack you will look like a dumbass. Women don’t really respond to those photos.

However women do respond to photos that tell a story. Take a look below at the types of photos you should have in your profile and you’ll see what I mean.

• Out in social settings
• With other women
• Photos with kids
• On vacation

These are the types of photos you should have in your profile no doubt about it. It shows women you travel. You have a life and travel to certain destinations and you have other women in your life. In other words you paint the picture you are not a loser.

Your profile is meant to uplift you into the man you want to be and the kind of women you want to attract.

For you older guys 28-35 looking to settle down and get married a totally recommend a photo with a baby or child – it shows the women you are interested in settling down and that you are marriage material. More to the point – you like kids.

So there you have it – it’s not that difficult to get photos of yourself in social gatherings just don’t try so hard posing – the idea is to look natural and not artificial.

Take a look at your profile now and review what you are doing wrong – fix it and start attracting women!

Stay tuned for our next posting….

I’m going to introduce you to Nico Simon Princely. He recently came out with this starter kit for attracting women online in particular MySpace. He goes in depth on how to write emails that will get read and also building a MySpace profile that will draw women to it. Best of all it’s this kit is FREE!

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For a lot of us this is the ultimate achievement with women – meeting her, getting physical and eventually sleeping with her. It all starts with a simple “Hi” (I don’t believe in one liners) flirting with her, isolating her and eventually getting her back to your place.

We are going to go through some simple steps to avoid becoming trapped in the “friends” category.

First thing in this whole dating game is to be confident and not care what others think. In fact you should give yourself free license to think you are the best catch in whatever venue you are in.

Step 1: You must establish physical contact, you can’t be afraid to get physical early on. For example in bars/clubs I will do high fives, hugs whatever to let her know I’m NOT that shy guy. The more you touch her, the more she’ll slowly become receptive towards you

Step 2: Be that sexual flirty guy. When you are talking to her you better be on point and communicate on a sexual level. You have to be for a lack of a better term ‘ballsy’ not afraid to use sexual innuendo. Slowly but surely she will look at you as a potential sex partner.

I’m also a big fan of the whole “push and pull” method. All I have to say is that it works like a charm each and every single time.

Step 3: Go for the kiss! At some point you are going to have to get sexual and the appetizer for her begins with the kiss. I will always draw her into a hug and look inter her eyes – if she locks eyes on me then I know its time to giver her a smooch.

As you can see there aren’t any real drawn out steps here at all when sealing the deal. There are no secret one liners are hypnotic words you need to use.

Always know that every woman wants a man to sweep them off their feet. Women are looking for men to show them a good time and ‘take’ them so to speak.

The next time you are out there meeting women and for some reason she isn’t flowing with you – walk away. Just walk away and open another set with a woman who is smart enough to recognize you are a catch.

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Sup fellas – I hope everyone’s 4th of July was fun and full of successful sets with women. I have to tell you nothing beats the 4th of July in Newport Beach, CA. Basically it’s one big block party down in the “warzone” – only thing it’s house after house for at least 30 blocks!

It was just non-stop partying, bikini babes, skateboarding, music, beer bongs, bikes, more babes!

Okay back to business I’m having flashbacks!

This seems to be a problem with online dating sites especially the free ones out there. There you are in front of the screen scanning profiles of these lucky young ladies you are about to contact, and there seems to be something fishy with the profile you just read.

The photo is an absolute 10 and she is beautiful – looks as though the photo was professionally done. But you want your Barbie and you shoot off an email.

Then you get a bullcrap response like this one:

“Thanks for the email sweetie but I have a boyfriend – anyway checkout this awesome new ______ for just $100 bucks”

Or even better it’s from an escort service or some porn site. Here are my tips for avoiding these fake profiles.

1. The photo looks like that of a model
2. She only has 1 photo
3. There is almost no text in her profile
4. The no photo, no info profile (done to take advantage of free trial)

Those are my top 4 warning signs of fake profiles you must avoid. Nothing irritates me more than wasting my time with a fraudulent profile only to be spammed.

Please be careful out there. To my female readers – YOU especially take note of the bullshit some guys will try to write on their profile to attract you. If it sounds to good to be true, it usually is.

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