Well, first off I hope you all had a great Christmas. This year I actually kept it mellow hung out at a friends’ house with his wife’s family. Hey there’s nothing wrong with taking a break from women and just appreciate life for what it is.

Anyway I want to share with you some tips on meeting women at a party or bar. This year (for the 1st time in 6 years) I’ll be in the U.S. celebrating New Year’s in California, so my plan will be in L.A. for the night.

Alright here we go….By now I hope you have made plans to party at a bar, club or house party. Just make sure if it’s a house party there will be women there if not bail and head to a bar.

Whatever you do don’t be that drunk asshole who loses control unable to speak a whole sentence. There is nothing worse for a woman than being approached by some drunk ass. Stay in control at all times and don’t embarrass yourself!

Be social! Talk to as many different women as possible moving from one group to the next. Spend some time doing this and whatever you do ‘be the fun guy’.

Next you will want to close in on the woman that caught your eye and start creating some real attraction here. Refer to my previous posts to pick up on ‘conversation topics’ you can easily use.

Here is an opener you can use: “Hey, I saw you from over there and I had to come over and say Hi, you have have great fashion style about you. My name is_______.” You can change up the opener to make it your own (be original).

There you go…an easy ice breaker that’s not hard, clever or cute. No need for a clever one-liner or some canned opener. 

Above all stay relaxed and don’t act nervous or fidget. I hope you all have a great New Year’s and stay safe!

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Here we are the day after Christmas and I’m in a great mood I want to offer you guys an awesome gift. I recently got a video from Carlos Xuma (he really knows his stuff) and this free video just blew me away.

In this video tutorial Carlos Xuma reveals the 3 things women really want. 

Very powerful stuff, but Carlos takes the time to break down further to better understand them. Click below to watch now!

http://www.datingdynamics.com/video/dating-advice-for-men-video1.html

The best part Carlos also gives you a great pick up line that works with women. You don’t come off as a fake or some PUA trying to get laid. It’s genuine and oozes confidence. I love it!

Carlos also talks about the type of man you eventually want to me and how to go about it. But the best part is the 100% FREE pick up line he gives us that you can use that won’t sound like a pick up line (if that makes sense).

Watch to this video you wont regret it!

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Ahhh yes you’ve heard from other PUA’s and dating coaches their countless techniques in approaching hot women – I mean the hottest women you’ll find anywhere.

There is so much emphasis on drills and canned routines it doesn’t really attack the one problem area.

How may times have you seen a **HOT** woman only to chicken out in approaching her? It has happened to all of us and more times I myself want to admit. Many dating coaches don’t address one mindset you need to adopt before making any kind of approach.

Fearlessness in taking chances!

Lets face it – you have a chance in her taking an interest in you if you actually try. You will fail 100% of the time if you never approach her!

***Side Note***
We have all seen those stunningly beautiful women where your jaw just drops.  All you can say is, ‘Wow she is hot’.

Here is the funny thing those women are not approached very often by men. They are so hot 9 out 10 guys are too afraid to say anything let alone spit some game. Believe it or not the odds are actually on your side. They want a man to walk up to them and charm them.
*** Side Note***

To be truthful you must adopt a positive mindset. Stop dwelling in the past or any negative outcomes. A positive mindset of alpha males usually are loaded with self affirmations like:

- I’m great looking with a future
- I have my shit together
- I’m the best looking guy here
- I have so much to offer women

The list can go on and on and I have several friends that used these exact affirmations. They were and still are convinced they are nothing short of awesome. Sometimes I shake my head and sure enough they will land the chick they want.

All I’m trying to get through here is that you must take a chance. Remember what I said, most of these ultra hot women are not approached by that many men. Okay she may blow you off. So what? What the hell do you care? Just move on to the next girl and to the next and next until you meet one.

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So what do you think guys is it better to have many lovers and be “that guy” that get them all or find that one lucky chick you will be with for a long time?

It actually comes down to a matter of choice. Let’s face it if you want to me the ultimate player than that’s up to you. However I’ll be upfront I think a monogamous relationship is the best thing you can have.

You’ll hear from other PUA’s and player that having many, many, many women is simply natural and unavoidable. I disagree with that statement 100%

First off, we have evolved enough where we don’t have to spread our seed everywhere and secondly having multiple women can actually backfire on you (if you aren’t careful). Not too many women with a strong sense of self will trust a man that’s been let’s say a 100 women. In fact they may not find him to be ‘husband’ material.

I am a proponent of getting great with women and dating several of them so you know what you want when you finally meet her.

***Sidebar***
If you really want ADVANCED information on flirting with women then I recommend you take a look at Flirt Mastery by Steve Scott. This site covers all you need to know about flirting with women.
*** End Sidebar***

I think it’s important that men learn how to become that guy women desire. In an age of political correctness, women’s liberation and lack of strong male role models many men have lost their natural maleness. Sounds weird but it’s true. There is just so much wrong information and bullshit – lets face it for many guys they are clueless. Hell, I was one of them.

So in summary don’t make life into a game of merely meeting women to fuck ‘em and chuck ‘em. I really don’t think that healthy for anyone. However make it a point to get great with women and learn how to make her laugh and how to flirt with her.

Why? So when you meet her there will be no obstacles to get the one that’s right for you! Who knows that monogamous relationship may become the most fulfilling one you will ever have.

Keep on keepin’ on and you too will find the one for you!

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As promised here is the continuation from my previous post on killing approach anxiety. A lot of it has to do with not knowing what to say, in particular what to say to a woman when you first meet here.

Lets face it opening the conversation is the toughest part.

Here is an opener that will work most of the time and you won’t come off like a creep or some lame ass dude.

Are you ready?

Okay here it is….

“I wanted to let you know that you have great style and energy. My name is…”

Introduce yourself very quickly using a “false time constraint” saying you only have a couple of minutes and say you would like to meet her for coffee some time that week.

I like using that one during the day when I’m not out not partying at night.

There is no need to come up with something clever or witty in fact she will be surprised and elated that a man had the nuts to walk up to her.

If you want more information on flirting with women then I recommend picking up a copy of Flirt Mastery by Steve Scott. This ebook will cover all you need to know about flirting with women.

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Ever go through that nagging voice in your head telling you, “don’t do it” seconds before you want to approach a woman? That inner voice is trying to protect you from some unforeseen imaginary threat. I guess in those days in small tribal groups it was dangerous to hit on another woman that was taken. So when our brains evolved it kept some basic survival programming in tact from our prehistoric ancestors.

Adhere to the 3-second rule: When you see a woman you want to meet, you only have about 3 seconds before that inner voice in your head tries to talk you out of it.

If you blow it and wait too long that voice will take control over you and you’re paralyzed with fear.

Don’t fall for this trap. Remember that voice is trying to prevent you from doing something out of fear of some unforeseen imaginary threat.

It’s all in your head!

For some of you it may happen all the time. You see a woman very pretty you really want to walk up and say something but you don’t. Instead you over think on “what to say” to her. Now your brain gets trapped in the anxiety of the moment, and fear stops you.

Don’t let this happen! If you see a girl that catches your eye take a deep breath and go for it. Just walk over and go for broke!

Stay tuned for next post I will give you some easy things to say to a women that will surely break the ice and kill anxiety approach!

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So you asking yourself what can be easier than meeting women in a bar, club or even a party? Actually there is one way to meet women where you can cherry pick any girl at a glace and choose which you want to say, ‘Hi’ to.

I’m talking online dating and it freakin’ works. A close buddy of mine used it to find his girlfriend and they’ve been dating for two years. A girl I work with in the office says her sister found love online.

Before writing this post I checked my Yahoo! email and I had a couple of unread messages from Plenty of Fish.

Online dating isn’t that hard. I actually used a sneaky trick to come up with my own online profile by spying on the competition.

I’m excited you are reading this post since I’m about to reveal the best way to come up with a killer profile. Use this easy 3-step process and you have a powerful online dating profile that will attract women.

Here are the steps I used:

1. Use Plenty Of Fish for free account and sign up as a single women.
2. Include photo of a hot chick.
3. Write a basic fun profile (I just copied from another girls profile)

Bingo – now I have set up a profile allowing me to spy on the competition.

So now I have guys emailing my fake profile and I’m paying attention to whose profile comes off as strong and confident. I’ll read the profiles and borrow bits and pieces and change it to reflect my own personality.

At the same time I’ll take the best emails that caught my eye and use them to contact the women I’m attracted to.

I did this when I came up with my own Match profile and it worked like a charm. I admit there are ton of terrible profiles but this also taught me what not to write in my profile.

If you want to attract women online you need to have the tools to reel them in and the best way to accomplish this is learning from the pros. There is nothing wrong with borrowing a line here or there. Just use your common sense and don’t copy any profile word for word.

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Sup gang my weekend was completely shot and I had to stay home from work today. But at least my cold wasn’t swine flu. I do have to be thankful for that. Its unreal I was all good through Thanksgiving popping Airborne on the flight and zip, nada no flu bug.

I get back to California with no problems so I hit the gym and boom next day my throat is sore and by Saturday I was completely KO’d.

To top it all off I was invited to a house party right on the beach Saturday and I had to cancel. There are always women at those house parties and here I am sipping Theraflu hoping the body aches just go away.

I hate wasting my weekends but man I had no energy and meeting women was furthest from my mind.

Anyway keep in tune this week I got some great posts lined up!

Okay today’s post is a rant more or less and it’s aimed at all metrosexuals. You know the type I’m talking about – they spend way more time doing their hair, getting manicures / pedicures and wearing “guyliner”.

Sorry but I find this unacceptable. We men are born male with cock and balls act like you got them! Guess what? Looking like a pretty boy isn’t what most women are attracted to.

You think women want to date another chick? Of course not.

Don’t take me the wrong way I take care of myself and I don’t go out looking like a slob but I never take it to the extreme. I never get waxed, I’ve never had my nails done and it takes me 2 minutes to style my hair.

Lets look at the following example of extreme behavior:

Holy shit balls! Do you seriously want to look this guy? Who knows maybe it works for him but come on already! Don’t think you need to look like this guy to attract women – YOU DON’T. 

Women want men not sissy boys that look better than they do. If you really want to discover how to be more ‘alpha’ then I highly recommend you read – How to Be an Alpha Male.

Anyway that’s my rant for the day. By all means take care of yourself but leave the tweezers and guyliner alone.

Until next time – keep on keepin’ on….

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Back to sunny California after visiting my folks for Thanksgiving last week and I had a blast. I saw several family friends I haven’t seen in years and pigged out on “dirty water dogs” and pizza for 7 days!

Okay enough of going down memory lane lets get back to business at hand here with today’s post. I want to talk about making women comfortable around you.

If you want women to trust you and hang on to you and ultimately sleep with you, you better learn how to make them feel comfortable with you. I know what you are saying how do I do this?

You need to follow three rules here:

• build TRUST
• make the girl FEEL SAFE
• don’t be a DOUCHEBAG (be exciting but not phony)

Lets break each one down…

Building trust with a woman just means not bullshitting them and trying so hard. You want to tell them enough but not too much (always add mystery to the mix).

Making her feel safe is not creeping her out by hovering on top of her, lurking around her or making stupid sexual comments. If you need help with “knowing what to say” with women then you need to get Flirt Mastery. This will literally have you “spittin game” like no other. Trust me – I use the tips in this book!

Last but not least please don’t be a douchebag. I’m being serious here I see a ton of guys trying way too hard and trying to be the guy they think they need to be to attract the girl.

In a sense be yourself BUT calibrate your personality so you are the fun, mysterious and confident man in her eyes.

I usually break the ice by asking a question and turning it on her where she opens up. I just sit back smile and relax. You can do exactly the same it’s not that difficult.

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