Hey guys, I’m sure by now you have heard of ‘cocky funny’ and how it’s the end all to be all on attracting women.

I’m here to say it’s a bunch of CRAP! Why? No one likes to be put down and on top of that who likes cocky people? Okay fine you are messing around but you are still being a cocky asshole / meathead. That can easily translate to arrogance or abrasiveness and for the most part confident women will see this a mile away and be turned off.

The key to attracting women is light humor and teasing. I tease all the damn time and they eat it up. You don’t have to be a Dave Chappell to attract women just simple light hearted humor is all you need. I’m no fan of goofy humor that paints you like a clown so I advise to stay clear from that.

Well there you have it the low down on cocky funny and my opinion why it’s a waste of time.

Keep on keepin on…
 
~ Dre

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I want to talk about killing your anxiety when approaching women with this training tip I want to share. It works because I did this same tactic to get over my fears and to be honest I still do it just to stay razor sharp.

Most of the dating and getting laid courses never talk about this. Helping you get over the hump when approaching women and destroying that mental block. All they do is give you some openers to approach women without doing one thing first.

That one thing is practice! You have to practice with women in order to get good.

For the most part your brain is preventing you from acting out of fear because you are outside your comfort level.

Let be honest you may not have too much experience with women. When you see women you are attracted to – you freeze up. You are uncomfortable approaching her and you constantly avoid those situations. It’s like a broken record it just happens over and over again.

Be honest how man times have you said – “Man I wish I would have asked her out” or “Man I wish I could have the balls to say something”

So how do you get over this hump? PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE!

How do you practice? By actually approaching women you are not attracted to! That’s right approach women you are not attracted to and make a quick conversation / comment and exit.

You need to train yourself not to be nervous in these situations. You accomplish this by training yourself with women in the 4 – 5 on the beauty scale to get over the hump of approaching. If you ever want to meet hot men or those 9’s and 10’s you first need to have approached those 4’s or 5’s.

Okay so where do you meet 4’s and 5’s to practice?

• Supermarkets
• Coffee shops
• Shopping mall
• Anywhere you see a ‘plain jane’ just fucking say something!!

It doesn’t have to be too complicated. If you are at the market and she’s holding a bottle of wine say “You are really going to enjoy that wine” wait for a quick response from her and go. That’s it. I still do this exercise just so I can stay sharp and never have that fear creep up on me. It’s more out of habit now but it works and I want you to use it.

Alright guys I gave you some training wheels – now you need to use them it’s all up to you.

Keep on keepin on…
 
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With the summer right around the corner there are going to be more and more people out and about and you need to take advantage.

1) Coffee Houses – I have to say whenever I come across a coffee house in downtown I always see good looking women sipping lattes and having fun. I honestly feel that coffee shops are an untapped market when it comes to meeting women. Most guys simply do not take advantage of what I found to be a terrific place to easily meet women. Just sit down with a cup of coffee and start a conversation with a woman nearby.

2) House Parties – I love house parties because they are fun and are meant for people to socialize. Just show up with a 12 pack and schmooze. These places are actually easier to meet women than you think. You already know someone there so you can use that to your advantage.

3) Social Circle – Your friends are an untapped market to meet women. You can also go the route of being the party planner and event organizer but keep it simple and use your social circle to meet more women.

4) Happy Hour – My all time favorite tactic to meet women. Why – because it’s way more relaxed than the nighttime bar scene or club and there’s still plenty of women to talk to. I live in an area with a weekly magazine that has list of things to do in the area. I’m sure your city has exactly the same – use it! I’m telling you it’s a goldmine.

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Okay we talked about some of the do’s and don’ts of contacting women you find online via email. I’ve actually had many of my Match and POF dates tell me some weird emails they’ve received from guys.

I hope my post will steer you away from those mistakes. Today I want to discuss your online profile and what really matters most.

The most important thing is your profile must tell a story about you. Your story should be one of a man that isn’t needy, is fun to be around and confident.

How do you accomplish this? The first thing is to have several photos that put you in those types of social situations. If you have photos of yourself in the mirror without your shirt – REMOVE them. Next time you’re out partying, a house party, enjoying Sunday funday – snap some photos and post those up on your profile.

How may times do you see women posting photos of themselves on Facebook? That’s right all the damn time!

Those photos put you out there as that fun guy and that’s what women want. They want a fun confident guy not that creep taking photos of himself in the mirror and in the hallway with no smile.

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Here’s another aspect of your profile you need to be mindful about, not coming off needy. I have to say I’ve read a ton of profile heading that rings – LOSER.   “Please pick me” , “Nice guy looking for love”. Sorry but you want to attract them not scare them.

Never mention you are a nice guy. Sure women say all the time they want a good guy who is nice and blah blah blah. You know what the problem is? It’s all bullshit because they always view the nice guy as a pussy. I had to learn that fu*cked up lesson time and time again.

Don’t get me wrong deep down many women want that nice guy but you can’t be a pussy – be strong and be a MAN.

Until next time keep on keepin on…
 
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Okay guys I need to write something here that I see more and more guys are doing when writing emails to women on Match.com or Plenty of Fish. I know and realize there are some online dating courses that talk about “challenging women” with a back handed compliment or something really stupid along those lines.

Guess what guys? Those tactics suck and don’t work. I had a coffee date with this cutie on Sunday (met her on plenty of fish) and she if I had any bad experiences. I turned my story into a funny one and when I was finished I asked about hers.

She mentioned how she was receiving emails from guys with some back handed compliments. I immediately thought to myself of a few of the online dating courses out there that proclaim you must challenge all women on any dating site.

Okay lets back up here a second and break this down. I asked my coffee date what she thought of the email? What was her response – “that was so lame”.

 Look, I myself have given positive reviews to a couple of these online dating but come on! Back handed compliments don’t work trust me I know – I did the same crap and I received ZERO responses.  

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All you do is sort of insult them and your email get deleted. WTF?! No bueno buddy you need to change up your game.

The best email I use with online dating websites will contain something along the lines of: “…you seem different and genuine…” That’s it!

Sure I will include some more stuff but I keep it short and send them off. Most of your responses will depend on what your profile says and your photos. I will follow up with some tips and tricks for a great profile this week so stay tuned!

Keep on keepin on…
 
~ Dre

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