Wow it’s been a long time since I’ve been here but truth be told my career and dating life has been taking a lot of my time in the past few months. I’m having a ton of fun and loving life right now. Recently I came back from Las Vegas for a trade show and had a blast.

Alright back to business – I want to talk to all the guys on Match and POF who are getting responses to winks and emails but are blowing the transition in getting her phone number.

So what is today’s lesson?

DON’T ask for her number right away! You will creep her out or she simply won’t respond to your 2nd follow up message. Remember she responded to your wink or email because she thinks you’re cute and you seem like a fun guy.

She responded with a ‘Hello’ – so your job is to charm her and basically exchange 3 to 4 emails each on basic info about each other (likes, dislikes, commonalities etc). If your second message is: “Hey what is your number?” you will come off needy/clingy and you’ll scare her away.

I always look for commonalities in her profile and will write something back and ask a couple of questions about her pictures, hobbies…whatever…you get the point.

I’ve always used this simple method with huge success but today was the 1st time a cutie on Match.com said “you’ve passed the weirdo test I can’t wait to talk to you”.

I think I see some panties dropping soon!!

I hope you will find today’s post useful so remember in your first 3-4 emails ask her some fun questions about her profile pics, her favorite vacation spots or hobbies to establish some commonalities. After she’s feels comfortable with you then ask for her number.

Keep on keepin on…

~ Dre

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