I recently downloaded this free report by Vin DiCarlo and I have to say it’s pretty freakin awesome. In short Vin goes into piecing apart female psychology and putting it back together so us men can attract women with better success.

One thing this is not is manipulating women for your own gain and just get laid. Truth is you don’t want to be the serial dater your whole life and singe. As you get older women are going to want men – not immature 35 year olds acting like they are 18 getting wasted every weekend.

Alright back to business – Vin does a great job on this report and an even better job when you sign up for his newsletter. His “Pandora’s Box Tips” are right on the money.

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Vin also does a great job on always centering your success in making women feel comfortable around you. Let’s face the facts, women will only go out and sleep with you if they feel safe around you.

I remember one of my ex’s telling me after sex how comfortable I made her feel. I just wish at the time I knew what that was to duplicate it

Click this link and download your free report by Vin DiCarlo – this guy knows his shit.

I hope you enjoyed todays post and until next time keep on keepin on…

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P.S. Don’t forget to watch this free video that Carlos Xuma put together for the shy guy to modify his behavior and adopt that Bad Boy style women trip over:
 
https://morpheus.infusionsoft.com/go/BBFsalespage/AID096544/ 

Trust me it a good vid!

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Here is a quick post I have to let you guys in on about Bad Boys and how they get the hottest chicks. I’m not talking about those pricks that are doing lines of booger sugar and drinking their asses off. I’m talking about that personality that women are drawn to because it oozes masculinity and sexuality, while never compromising his standards.

Watch this free video and see if this is the formula for you:

https://morpheus.infusionsoft.com/go/BBFvid1/AID096544/

Carlos Xuma has been around for a long time, he’s black belt instructor and an accomplished guitar player. I have followed his material for some time and I must say he’s THOROUGH and METICULOUS in everything he does.

Take some time and watch this free video Carlos put together (I swiped this from his email he sent so I can share with you) and get some free “insider” secret tips he is sharing.

This could be the KEY YOU NEED to escaping the dreaded “FRIEND ZONE” – and becoming the desired lover you want to be.

Go check it out here:

https://morpheus.infusionsoft.com/go/BBFvid1/AID096544/

Keep on keepin on…

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Here is an interesting question I want to pose to you: when do you think it’s the best time to impress any women? Is it in the beginning when you first meet her or work up to that goal?

You may be surprised with my answer (my opinion). I think it’s never a good time to impress any women. Think about it for a second, if you feel the need to impress a girl (or anyone for that matter) you are coming off from a needy state of mind.

Any guy that has “figured it out” can approach any woman ant any time and simply talk to her. He doesn’t think out rejection. He doesn’t worry about his weight, his car, how much money he has or how tall he is.

Never try to impress women by bragging or showing off – it’s nothing outwardly that will impress but what’s inside that will impress her.

Sorry if I sound cliché here but think about for a second; what will really impress her are your communication skills and attitude.

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Alternatively if you have nothing but excuses holding you back this to can be damaging to your dating life. The only answer is by letting go of all the painful past experiences, worrying of what she might say, personal issues will you be able to become that “alpha male”.

Alpha males don’t need a woman to make them happy they want them in their lives. See there is a difference between needing and wanting; if you need something you are filling a void. You want something to add to your life or experiences.

I’m flat out against needing anything to make you happy for one reason. No matter how hard you try to fill that void with whatever – that void never gets filled. 

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Here we are the day after Christmas and I’m in a great mood I want to offer you guys an awesome gift. I recently got a video from Carlos Xuma (he really knows his stuff) and this free video just blew me away.

In this video tutorial Carlos Xuma reveals the 3 things women really want. 

Very powerful stuff, but Carlos takes the time to break down further to better understand them. Click below to watch now!

http://www.datingdynamics.com/video/dating-advice-for-men-video1.html

The best part Carlos also gives you a great pick up line that works with women. You don’t come off as a fake or some PUA trying to get laid. It’s genuine and oozes confidence. I love it!

Carlos also talks about the type of man you eventually want to me and how to go about it. But the best part is the 100% FREE pick up line he gives us that you can use that won’t sound like a pick up line (if that makes sense).

Watch to this video you wont regret it!

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Ahhh yes you’ve heard from other PUA’s and dating coaches their countless techniques in approaching hot women – I mean the hottest women you’ll find anywhere.

There is so much emphasis on drills and canned routines it doesn’t really attack the one problem area.

How may times have you seen a **HOT** woman only to chicken out in approaching her? It has happened to all of us and more times I myself want to admit. Many dating coaches don’t address one mindset you need to adopt before making any kind of approach.

Fearlessness in taking chances!

Lets face it – you have a chance in her taking an interest in you if you actually try. You will fail 100% of the time if you never approach her!

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We have all seen those stunningly beautiful women where your jaw just drops.  All you can say is, ‘Wow she is hot’.

Here is the funny thing those women are not approached very often by men. They are so hot 9 out 10 guys are too afraid to say anything let alone spit some game. Believe it or not the odds are actually on your side. They want a man to walk up to them and charm them.
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To be truthful you must adopt a positive mindset. Stop dwelling in the past or any negative outcomes. A positive mindset of alpha males usually are loaded with self affirmations like:

- I’m great looking with a future
- I have my shit together
- I’m the best looking guy here
- I have so much to offer women

The list can go on and on and I have several friends that used these exact affirmations. They were and still are convinced they are nothing short of awesome. Sometimes I shake my head and sure enough they will land the chick they want.

All I’m trying to get through here is that you must take a chance. Remember what I said, most of these ultra hot women are not approached by that many men. Okay she may blow you off. So what? What the hell do you care? Just move on to the next girl and to the next and next until you meet one.

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So what do you think guys is it better to have many lovers and be “that guy” that get them all or find that one lucky chick you will be with for a long time?

It actually comes down to a matter of choice. Let’s face it if you want to me the ultimate player than that’s up to you. However I’ll be upfront I think a monogamous relationship is the best thing you can have.

You’ll hear from other PUA’s and player that having many, many, many women is simply natural and unavoidable. I disagree with that statement 100%

First off, we have evolved enough where we don’t have to spread our seed everywhere and secondly having multiple women can actually backfire on you (if you aren’t careful). Not too many women with a strong sense of self will trust a man that’s been let’s say a 100 women. In fact they may not find him to be ‘husband’ material.

I am a proponent of getting great with women and dating several of them so you know what you want when you finally meet her.

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I think it’s important that men learn how to become that guy women desire. In an age of political correctness, women’s liberation and lack of strong male role models many men have lost their natural maleness. Sounds weird but it’s true. There is just so much wrong information and bullshit – lets face it for many guys they are clueless. Hell, I was one of them.

So in summary don’t make life into a game of merely meeting women to fuck ‘em and chuck ‘em. I really don’t think that healthy for anyone. However make it a point to get great with women and learn how to make her laugh and how to flirt with her.

Why? So when you meet her there will be no obstacles to get the one that’s right for you! Who knows that monogamous relationship may become the most fulfilling one you will ever have.

Keep on keepin’ on and you too will find the one for you!

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Ever go through that nagging voice in your head telling you, “don’t do it” seconds before you want to approach a woman? That inner voice is trying to protect you from some unforeseen imaginary threat. I guess in those days in small tribal groups it was dangerous to hit on another woman that was taken. So when our brains evolved it kept some basic survival programming in tact from our prehistoric ancestors.

Adhere to the 3-second rule: When you see a woman you want to meet, you only have about 3 seconds before that inner voice in your head tries to talk you out of it.

If you blow it and wait too long that voice will take control over you and you’re paralyzed with fear.

Don’t fall for this trap. Remember that voice is trying to prevent you from doing something out of fear of some unforeseen imaginary threat.

It’s all in your head!

For some of you it may happen all the time. You see a woman very pretty you really want to walk up and say something but you don’t. Instead you over think on “what to say” to her. Now your brain gets trapped in the anxiety of the moment, and fear stops you.

Don’t let this happen! If you see a girl that catches your eye take a deep breath and go for it. Just walk over and go for broke!

Stay tuned for next post I will give you some easy things to say to a women that will surely break the ice and kill anxiety approach!

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Okay today’s post is a rant more or less and it’s aimed at all metrosexuals. You know the type I’m talking about – they spend way more time doing their hair, getting manicures / pedicures and wearing “guyliner”.

Sorry but I find this unacceptable. We men are born male with cock and balls act like you got them! Guess what? Looking like a pretty boy isn’t what most women are attracted to.

You think women want to date another chick? Of course not.

Don’t take me the wrong way I take care of myself and I don’t go out looking like a slob but I never take it to the extreme. I never get waxed, I’ve never had my nails done and it takes me 2 minutes to style my hair.

Lets look at the following example of extreme behavior:

Holy shit balls! Do you seriously want to look this guy? Who knows maybe it works for him but come on already! Don’t think you need to look like this guy to attract women – YOU DON’T. 

Women want men not sissy boys that look better than they do. If you really want to discover how to be more ‘alpha’ then I highly recommend you read – How to Be an Alpha Male.

Anyway that’s my rant for the day. By all means take care of yourself but leave the tweezers and guyliner alone.

Until next time – keep on keepin’ on….

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Back to sunny California after visiting my folks for Thanksgiving last week and I had a blast. I saw several family friends I haven’t seen in years and pigged out on “dirty water dogs” and pizza for 7 days!

Okay enough of going down memory lane lets get back to business at hand here with today’s post. I want to talk about making women comfortable around you.

If you want women to trust you and hang on to you and ultimately sleep with you, you better learn how to make them feel comfortable with you. I know what you are saying how do I do this?

You need to follow three rules here:

• build TRUST
• make the girl FEEL SAFE
• don’t be a DOUCHEBAG (be exciting but not phony)

Lets break each one down…

Building trust with a woman just means not bullshitting them and trying so hard. You want to tell them enough but not too much (always add mystery to the mix).

Making her feel safe is not creeping her out by hovering on top of her, lurking around her or making stupid sexual comments. If you need help with “knowing what to say” with women then you need to get Flirt Mastery. This will literally have you “spittin game” like no other. Trust me – I use the tips in this book!

Last but not least please don’t be a douchebag. I’m being serious here I see a ton of guys trying way too hard and trying to be the guy they think they need to be to attract the girl.

In a sense be yourself BUT calibrate your personality so you are the fun, mysterious and confident man in her eyes.

I usually break the ice by asking a question and turning it on her where she opens up. I just sit back smile and relax. You can do exactly the same it’s not that difficult.

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Today’s post will be short and brief and it’s mean for guys on making a quick getaway.

Okay here is the deal – you are talking with some chick and for whatever reason she’s not digging you, seems aloof, or the conversation is going nowhere you need an exit strategy.

Never go down with a sinking ship – always have a exit strategy. If you are in this situation simply walk away even if you are in mid sentence. I mean it why waste your time and keep trying?

Sure it sounds shitty but you have no time to waste with someone that will not reciprocate your positive energy. There is nothing worse than talking to a women and struggling to keep the conversation going.

Why waste your time with her? Just walk away and be done with it.

I have been in numerous situations where the chick I approached paid zero attention to me I made a valiant attempt but hey not every girl will “like” me. In those cases walk away and move on to the next girl.

Doing this will cut down on wasted time and frustration.

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