Lets talk about “day game” for a moment. There was a time that approaching a woman during the day would have scared the hell out of me and I simply didn’t do it. In fact I thought that bars, clubs & parties were the best spots in picking up women.
Truth is I couldn’t have been more wrong. At the time I didn’t understand that generally speaking women are on guard approaching them at the typical ‘meat market’ is so much more challenging than a normal setting. Although women go to bars and clubs to meet a man that can sweep them off their feet they are highly selective.
Women will never run the risk of appearing like a slut so she will only entertain the one guy that can successfully pull off a good pickup.
You see it all the time women totally pushing men away and shooting them down left and right. Don’t get me wrong she’s not a bitch she’s just deflecting all the douchebags away from her.
Take her out of that environment and she is now much more relaxed and not on guard. How many times have you seen a hot chick in the market, Starbucks, clothing store or at the park? Seriously they are all over the place and you have the advantage if you approach her!
How do I have the advantage? Simply said no other guy is doing it or thinking about it.
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So how do you go about picking her up in broad daylight?
Well you have 2 choices as I see it.
1) Direct approach
2) Indirect approach
With the direct approach you simply walk up to her and can say something like:
“I don’t have that much time but I wanted to say, I love your sense of style, reminds me of that bohemian look. Let’s grab coffee sometime this week.”
As you can see very simple and to the point. You are putting it out your intentions so you don’t waste your time.
The indirect approach you’ll basically comment on her activity or what she is doing.
“I noticed you drinking that new blend how is it?” From there you continue the conversation.
The only rule always have a time limit on how long you can stay – make an excuse that friends are waiting on you, you have to be somewhere or whatever excuse you can come up with. However you must ask for her digits then leave.
There is no reason to stop her in the street and get into some bullshit story how you witnessed a street fight or how you saw a gang of feral cats kill a man.
Here is the funny part – women actually love this kind of approach. I used both direct and indirect approaches and they both work most of the time. Here are the 3 responses you should expect to receive:
1) Be prepared for her to say “No” – it will happen but not all that often from my own experiences. Maybe she has a boyfriend or is having a bad day. Don’t worry about it and move one – just brush it off and move on to the next one.
2) You will also sometimes get the “Why don’t you give me your number” which in fact is another form of her saying “No” politely.
3) Sure! Are you ready? She is interested and she wants you to call her – BINGO!! You’ll be happy to know that women are very receptive during the day outside of the typical bar / club scene.
I hope this opens your eyes on day game and it’s not hard – in fact it’s easier than the bar scene. Good luck!
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