Considering the state the economy is in I want to share with you an important article that was posted on the web recently:

http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/articlematch.aspx?cp-documentid=26239691&GT1=32023

Now can you honestly make the excuse that you need money in order to get dates? Even if you come across a hot, smoking certified 10 and she expects or even demands that all her dates buy dinner at the most expensive restaurants and demands $$$ gifts. You must ask yourself do you really want her as girlfriend?

The answer should be – NO! Do the right thing and just walk away.

Read the article again if you have to and look for inexpensive even free venues for dates. Hey I’ve been there and had to do the same.

Keep on keepin on…

~ Dre

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I don’t have a lot of time to write today I’m off to meet a few friends. So instead of some big article post I want to share with you a free report on flirting.

I have a number of people emailing me and replying to my articles about flirting. In particular about, “Flirt Mastery”. So instead of writing a lengthy review and trying to *sell* it, I’ve decided to offer a preview version:

===> http://www.datingadvicecafe.com/gift/flirtmastery.pdf

(Remember to ‘right click’ to download it to your desktop)

Unlike other *free* reports, this preview version doesn’t contain useless junk or an elaborate sales page. In fact, it contains SPECIFIC techniques you can use for flirting and creating sexual attraction.

And I’m sure if you like it, you’ll want to check out the FULL version!

So here’s the link again for the preview copy:

===> http://www.datingadvicecafe.com/gift/flirtmastery.pdf

Okay folks that’s about it for today! Just download this report and read almost 90 pages of great content.

Keep on keepin on,

- Dre

Sup Fellas!! I wanted to write a post on Happy Hour and what it could mean for your social and dating life. According to a 2010 survey the top 5 cities for singles are:

1. New Orleans
2. Miami
3. Austin
4. New York
5. Las Vegas

In each one of these cities is 5:00pm somewhere and usually that means Happy Hour is alive and well with a ton of single men and women looking to unwind from a long day at work and enjoy the evening.

This is your opportunity to go out and meet women! All you need is one wing man, buddy, compadre, to hang with and make it fun (hell you can go by yourself). Best thing is you don’t have to spend a ton of money since drinks and food are usually discounted.

Yesterday I was talking about practicing your pick up game. Happy Hour is the perfect outlet and you can meet some quality women in these social settings.

Get out of your head, “you can’t meet a quality woman in a bar”. That is bullshit and makes no sense. Quality women can be found anywhere but are you willing to go the mile and seek them out?

Anyway that is some food for thought for today.

Keep on keepin on…
 
~ Dre

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With the summer right around the corner there are going to be more and more people out and about and you need to take advantage.

1) Coffee Houses – I have to say whenever I come across a coffee house in downtown I always see good looking women sipping lattes and having fun. I honestly feel that coffee shops are an untapped market when it comes to meeting women. Most guys simply do not take advantage of what I found to be a terrific place to easily meet women. Just sit down with a cup of coffee and start a conversation with a woman nearby.

2) House Parties – I love house parties because they are fun and are meant for people to socialize. Just show up with a 12 pack and schmooze. These places are actually easier to meet women than you think. You already know someone there so you can use that to your advantage.

3) Social Circle – Your friends are an untapped market to meet women. You can also go the route of being the party planner and event organizer but keep it simple and use your social circle to meet more women.

4) Happy Hour – My all time favorite tactic to meet women. Why – because it’s way more relaxed than the nighttime bar scene or club and there’s still plenty of women to talk to. I live in an area with a weekly magazine that has list of things to do in the area. I’m sure your city has exactly the same – use it! I’m telling you it’s a goldmine.

Keep on keepin on…
 
~ Dre

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I have here a great post for the ladies that read the blog! That’s right ladies I got a call from Brian at Ranker.com telling me he has a great idea for a blog. 

“Sure what do you have for me?” I asked.

The Seven Deadly Sins of Dating by litgoddess. I recommend that all women click the link and have yourself a good read. Please do all men a favor and pay particular attention to #5 on the list.

Keep on keepin on…
 
- Dre

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P.S. Don’t forget to watch this free video that Carlos Xuma out together for the shy guy to modify his behavior and adopt that Bad Boy style women trip over:
 
https://morpheus.infusionsoft.com/go/BBFsalespage/AID096544/ 

Trust me it a good vid!

Well, first off I hope you all had a great Christmas. This year I actually kept it mellow hung out at a friends’ house with his wife’s family. Hey there’s nothing wrong with taking a break from women and just appreciate life for what it is.

Anyway I want to share with you some tips on meeting women at a party or bar. This year (for the 1st time in 6 years) I’ll be in the U.S. celebrating New Year’s in California, so my plan will be in L.A. for the night.

Alright here we go….By now I hope you have made plans to party at a bar, club or house party. Just make sure if it’s a house party there will be women there if not bail and head to a bar.

Whatever you do don’t be that drunk asshole who loses control unable to speak a whole sentence. There is nothing worse for a woman than being approached by some drunk ass. Stay in control at all times and don’t embarrass yourself!

Be social! Talk to as many different women as possible moving from one group to the next. Spend some time doing this and whatever you do ‘be the fun guy’.

Next you will want to close in on the woman that caught your eye and start creating some real attraction here. Refer to my previous posts to pick up on ‘conversation topics’ you can easily use.

Here is an opener you can use: “Hey, I saw you from over there and I had to come over and say Hi, you have have great fashion style about you. My name is_______.” You can change up the opener to make it your own (be original).

There you go…an easy ice breaker that’s not hard, clever or cute. No need for a clever one-liner or some canned opener. 

Above all stay relaxed and don’t act nervous or fidget. I hope you all have a great New Year’s and stay safe!

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Here we are the day after Christmas and I’m in a great mood I want to offer you guys an awesome gift. I recently got a video from Carlos Xuma (he really knows his stuff) and this free video just blew me away.

In this video tutorial Carlos Xuma reveals the 3 things women really want. 

Very powerful stuff, but Carlos takes the time to break down further to better understand them. Click below to watch now!

http://www.datingdynamics.com/video/dating-advice-for-men-video1.html

The best part Carlos also gives you a great pick up line that works with women. You don’t come off as a fake or some PUA trying to get laid. It’s genuine and oozes confidence. I love it!

Carlos also talks about the type of man you eventually want to me and how to go about it. But the best part is the 100% FREE pick up line he gives us that you can use that won’t sound like a pick up line (if that makes sense).

Watch to this video you wont regret it!

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As promised here is the continuation from my previous post on killing approach anxiety. A lot of it has to do with not knowing what to say, in particular what to say to a woman when you first meet here.

Lets face it opening the conversation is the toughest part.

Here is an opener that will work most of the time and you won’t come off like a creep or some lame ass dude.

Are you ready?

Okay here it is….

“I wanted to let you know that you have great style and energy. My name is…”

Introduce yourself very quickly using a “false time constraint” saying you only have a couple of minutes and say you would like to meet her for coffee some time that week.

I like using that one during the day when I’m not out not partying at night.

There is no need to come up with something clever or witty in fact she will be surprised and elated that a man had the nuts to walk up to her.

If you want more information on flirting with women then I recommend picking up a copy of Flirt Mastery by Steve Scott. This ebook will cover all you need to know about flirting with women.

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This is what I consider to be the last piece to the puzzle. As a man you have gone through a lot of trouble attracting her and now you want to keep her in your realm.

When it comes right down to it she will only stick around if you can still give her butterflies the same way you did when you first met.

What is the secret sauce I’m talking about? Being adventurous and little uncontrollable. Trick is not to be a raving lunatic, still show your wild side but also be understanding and gentle. To make sure the fire never fades keep being adventurous and surprise her. She will eat it all up.

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The same rule applies to married men as well. My buddy is planning a weekend surprise getaway for his women at a resort. Trust me when I say that will surprise the shit out of her and she’ll be on cloud nine for 3 days.

Keep teasing her, guessing and surprising her – that will keep the emotional roller coaster running red hot.

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Unless you’ve been a total dweeb and living under a rock you have heard of the term “coming on to hard” with women. So what does it mean? Basically showing too much interest in a chick you are hitting on.

So there you are talking with a bona fide “10” and you are laying it on real thick complimenting her looks, making sexual innuendos, going for the kiss but she stops you dead in your tracks and runs away.

If you are coming on too hard she will assume you are looking to only get laid – girls don’t want to appear like a slut and will turn away.

Trick is to keep it slow and tease her along the way. In no way do I recommend screwing with her head and leading her on – DON’T DO IT!

You don’t want to come on too strong all it does is make you appear immature and you will not score with her. Trust me I made this mistake too many times.

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Flirting is the best weapon you have with women. When done correctly you won’t come on too strong and she will find you irresistible.

Whenever you’re dealing with women, remind yourself to take slow and always flirt! Most women LOVE it when guys flirt and tease playfully. It shows women you are a man who is confident and fun; after all women want to be shown a good time.

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