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		<title>How To Handle Cock Blockers!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Nov 2010 20:02:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dre</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yep – we are going to talk about those douche bags that try to get a laugh at your expense especially in front of women. You must shut that down ASAP and make him look like a fool so those women don’t take him seriously. I repeat – YOU MUST SHUT HIM DOWN AND GET [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yep – we are going to talk about those douche bags that try to get a laugh at your expense especially in front of women. You must shut that down ASAP and make him look like a fool so those women don’t take him seriously. I repeat – <strong>YOU MUST SHUT HIM DOWN AND GET THE LAST WORD!</strong></p>
<p>It’s hard enough meeting a awesome looking chick you should not have to be on alert from morons that try to make you look foolish. Fact is you will always have those guys that will cock block you. </p>
<p>I have included an amazing article from Carlos Xuma how to handle cock blocking douchebags – it’s great article. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.datingdynamics.com/dating-advice-for-men-newsletters/get-better-social-skills.html">http://www.datingdynamics.com/dating-advice-for-men-newsletters/get-better-social-skills.html</a></p>
<p>I hope you enjoy this article not only will you make him look stupid women will realize who&#8217;s boss. </p>
<p>Keep on keepin on…</p>
<p>~ Dre</p>
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		<title>Seduction Roadmap Teleseminar by Sinn</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 21:33:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dre</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating Strategies]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Okay guys here is a teleseminar I HIGHLY RECOMMEND you sign up for and it&#8217;s tomorrow &#8211; Thursday, July 29th at 9PM ET / 6PM PT I advise to watch all 3 videos to get a start, trust me when I say what you will learn will have you scooping up hot chicks in no [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay guys here is a teleseminar I HIGHLY RECOMMEND you sign up for and it&#8217;s <strong>tomorrow &#8211; Thursday, July 29th at 9PM ET / 6PM PT</strong></p>
<p>I advise to watch all 3 videos to get a start, trust me when I say what you will learn will have you scooping up hot chicks in no time. There are a lot of guys out there giving you bullcrap advice most of it wrong. Sinn on the other hand knows what he&#8217;s talking about because he&#8217;s doing it.</p>
<p>Click the link &#8212;&gt; <a title="Seduction Roadmap" href="http://www.seductionroadmap.com" target="_blank">www.seductionroadmap.com</a> and get started!</p>
<p><strong>Here’s some of what you’ll discover:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>How shut down all barriers for a girl to have sex with you!</li>
<li>Five topics that, when brought up correctly, will get you laid almost every time!  </li>
<li>How to get girls to agree to have sex with you BEFORE even trying to get them back to your place!</li>
</ul>
<p>There is so much more and the best part <strong>there is no cost $$ to watch the videos.</strong></p>
<p>If you&#8217;re sick and tired of not knowing how escalate the conversation sexually then this event is for you. I picked up some great conversation sound bytes I plan on using myself, Sinn is sharp and honest.</p>
<p>Sorry for the short notice but it&#8217;s not too late to pick up some real tips you can actually use this weekend.</p>
<p>Keep on keepin on…<br />
 <br />
~ Dre</p>
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		<title>Are You Practicing Your Pick Up?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 06:17:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dre</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating Advice]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sorry guys it’s been a while I know – I’ve been super busy with life and as a result tough to write my posts on a consistent basis. No need to worry I put together  some important food for thought, Are You Practicing Your Pick Up? It’s a legitimate question you need to ask yourself. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry guys it’s been a while I know – I’ve been super busy with life and as a result tough to write my posts on a consistent basis. No need to worry I put together  some important food for thought, Are You Practicing Your Pick Up?</p>
<p>It’s a legitimate question you need to ask yourself. If you are a complete newbie how are you supposed to know the I.O.I a girl is throwing at you if you don’t have a clue as to what they are.</p>
<p>If you are having issues with talk to women you will not be able to see the I.O.I or even worse you do notice what may be an I.O.I and you are frozen in fear to talk to her!</p>
<p>So there you are like an asshole standing there clueless as to what to do.</p>
<p>How do you avoid this situation - by making it a HABIT and be disciplined when talking to women. I mean how many dating ebooks have you read or audio courses and never used it?</p>
<p>Be honest, how much have you spent in self-help and never implemented what you learned?</p>
<p>You must actually use what you learned and make it a habit in your daily life to approach women. Reading all the dating ebooks in the world will not help you!!!</p>
<p>Practice, Practice, Practice – oh yeah did I mention practice, your conversational skills with women. If not you will never get over the hump of meeting women.</p>
<p>Until next time keep on keepin on…<br />
 <br />
~ Dre</p>
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		<title>Destroy Her Bitch Shield</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 06:11:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dre</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have a gift for all of you before the weekend about handling even the most brutal bitch shields. If you guys are having issues with hot women throwing bitch shields then you need to watch these 3 videos from Gambler (actually Kezia). These videos are freaking awesome!! Click here to watch the videos &#8211; [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a gift for all of you before the weekend about handling even the most brutal bitch shields. If you guys are having issues with hot women throwing bitch shields then you need to watch these 3 videos from Gambler (actually Kezia).</p>
<p>These videos are freaking awesome!!</p>
<p><a title="Destroy her bitch shield!" href="http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2010/06/disarm-bitchshield" target="_blank">Click here to watch the videos &#8211; Destroy her bitch shield</a></p>
<p>These videos totally put you in control without having to overdo the whole ‘neg’ routine. <strong>Watch these videos</strong> they are loaded with great advice and will come in handy.</p>
<p>Keep on keepin on…<br />
 <br />
~ Dre</p>
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		<title>Taking Things Too Far &amp; Losing Her</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jun 2010 04:35:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dre</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I need to talk about something that happened this past weekend in Las Vegas as I was celebrating my birthday at the Palms Pool. I was celebrating with several friends and one of them is a legend among us for his partying skills. Anyway he was there with his new lady and for 3 days [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I need to talk about something that happened this past weekend in Las Vegas as I was celebrating my birthday at the Palms Pool. I was celebrating with several friends and one of them is a legend among us for his partying skills. Anyway he was there with his new lady and for 3 days he was taking things to the limit.</p>
<p>I mean he was partying so damn hard he was a staggering drunk and passing out early. She was there to have a good time but she was basically babysitting him the entire weekend.</p>
<p>I only bring this up because they’ve been dating for about a month so the romance is still new and fresh. She already had an idea that he likes to party but now she got a full knuckle sandwich of the “type of guy” my buddy is. She was frustrated to say the least and it sucks to see it happened to my close friend. To be honest I see that relationship ending soon.</p>
<p>He has a lot of bad habits and I’m addressing this post to those readers who go on benders and “party” way too hard.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">STOP IT!</span></strong> Those habits will catch up with you and eventually will be your downfall. It’s not worth it – you don’t need lots of alcohol to talk to women. Nor do you need to put anything else into your body to be that “fun guy”.</p>
<p>I see a lot of guys that feel they need to drink or do other things to be popular, liked or cool. These are all bad reasons and demonstrate a weak sense of self worth.</p>
<p>Don’t get me wrong, I drink myself but I don’t like to lose control nor do I expect people to take care of me. Just keep it clean and cool use what you have learned about pick up and <strong>your confidence will get you women</strong>.</p>
<p>Keep on keepin on…<br />
 <br />
~ Dre</p>
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		<title>Girlies Are Out-and-About!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2010 04:23:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dre</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey guys I’m back!!!!!!!! Sorry it has been some time but I’ve been away and had a close friend staying with me so that took up my time constantly going out and partying. Okay I’m back so lets get to work – I know I missed a lot here! As I was out I remembered [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey guys I’m back!!!!!!!! Sorry it has been some time but I’ve been away and had a close friend staying with me so that took up my time constantly going out and partying. Okay I’m back so lets get to work – I know I missed a lot here!</p>
<p>As I was out I remembered the days when I was not exactly taking advantage of going to bars/clubs and parties and meeting women. Instead I just sat home and did nothing blaming myself for not being tall enough, rich, or not cool enough.</p>
<p>I forgot one thing – women are out-and-about and I was doing nothing about it! For some of you reading this you are probably doing the same. Are you deciding to stay home not returning phone calls from friends to attend a house party or some other social outing?</p>
<p>What’s up? I mean WTF, why are you not taking advantage of the opportunities?</p>
<p>Okay fine you may be shy, may not know what to say but how long will you use that as an excuse? Stop licking your wounds and get of your ass and stop being such a pussy! Once you let go of all your baggage and realize it’s YOU that has slowed your progress with women the world will open up.</p>
<p><strong>***Sidebar***<br />
</strong>Do you want to learn how <strong>Paul Janka</strong> had sex with over 173 women? Check out his ADVANCED course on <a title="Advanced Day Game" href="http://www.attractionformula.com/cmd.php?af=1023376" target="_blank">Day Game and attracting women</a> – highly recommend! This guy was featured on Dr. Phil for pete’s sake.  <br />
<strong>*** End Sidebar***</strong></p>
<p>We all have some issues we can work on but the trick is to leave them behind you and move on. Whatever you do don’t allow it to rule your life and stunt your growth.</p>
<p>Until then keep on keepin on…<br />
 <br />
- Dre</p>
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		<title>Approaching Ultra Hot Women…Can It Be Done?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 06:47:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dre</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[alpha male]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ahhh yes you’ve heard from other PUA’s and dating coaches their countless techniques in approaching hot women – I mean the hottest women you’ll find anywhere. There is so much emphasis on drills and canned routines it doesn’t really attack the one problem area. How may times have you seen a **HOT** woman only to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ahhh yes you’ve heard from other PUA’s and dating coaches their countless techniques in approaching hot women – I mean the hottest women you’ll find anywhere.</p>
<p>There is so much emphasis on drills and canned routines it doesn’t really attack the one problem area.</p>
<p>How may times have you seen a **HOT** woman only to chicken out in approaching her? It has happened to all of us and more times I myself want to admit. Many dating coaches don’t address one mindset you need to adopt before making any kind of approach.</p>
<p><strong>Fearlessness in taking chances!</strong></p>
<p>Lets face it &#8211; you have a chance in her taking an interest in you if you actually try. You will fail 100% of the time if you never approach her!</p>
<p><strong>***Side Note***</strong><br />
We have all seen those stunningly beautiful women where your jaw just drops.  All you can say is, ‘Wow she is hot’.</p>
<p>Here is the funny thing <span style="text-decoration: underline;">those women are not approached very often by men</span>. They are so hot 9 out 10 guys are too afraid to say anything let alone spit some game. Believe it or not the odds are actually on your side. They want a man to walk up to them and charm them.<br />
<strong>*** Side Note***</strong></p>
<p>To be truthful you <strong>must adopt a positive mindset</strong>. Stop dwelling in the past or any negative outcomes. A positive mindset of alpha males usually are loaded with self affirmations like:</p>
<p>- I’m great looking with a future<br />
- I have my shit together<br />
- I’m the best looking guy here<br />
- I have so much to offer women</p>
<p>The list can go on and on and I have several friends that used these exact affirmations. They were and still are convinced they are nothing short of awesome. Sometimes I shake my head and sure enough they will land the chick they want.</p>
<p>All I’m trying to get through here is that you must take a chance. Remember what I said, most of these ultra hot women are not approached by that many men. Okay she may blow you off. So what? What the hell do you care? Just move on to the next girl and to the next and next until you meet one.</p>
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		<title>Is It Better To Be A Player Or Monogamous?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 08:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dre</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So what do you think guys is it better to have many lovers and be “that guy” that get them all or find that one lucky chick you will be with for a long time? It actually comes down to a matter of choice. Let’s face it if you want to me the ultimate player [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So what do you think guys is it better to have many lovers and be “that guy” that get them all or find that one lucky chick you will be with for a long time?</p>
<p>It actually comes down to a matter of choice. Let’s face it if you want to me the ultimate player than that’s up to you. However I’ll be upfront I think a monogamous relationship is the best thing you can have.</p>
<p>You’ll hear from other PUA’s and player that having many, many, many women is simply natural and unavoidable. I disagree with that statement 100%</p>
<p>First off, we have evolved enough where we don’t have to spread our seed everywhere and secondly having multiple women can actually backfire on you (if you aren’t careful). Not too many women with a strong sense of self will trust a man that’s been let’s say a 100 women. In fact they may not find him to be ‘husband’ material.</p>
<p>I am a proponent of <strong>getting great with women</strong> and <strong>dating several</strong> of them so you know what you want when you finally meet her.</p>
<p><strong>***Sidebar***</strong><br />
If you really want ADVANCED information on flirting with women then I recommend you take a look at <a title="flirt mastery" href="http://www.datingadvicecafe.com/course/flirtmastery.htm" target="_blank">Flirt Mastery by Steve Scott</a>. This site covers all you need to know about flirting with women.<br />
<strong>*** End Sidebar***</strong></p>
<p>I think it’s important that men learn how to become that guy women desire. In an age of political correctness, women’s liberation and lack of strong male role models many men have lost their natural maleness. Sounds weird but it’s true. There is just so much wrong information and bullshit – lets face it for many guys they are clueless. Hell, I was one of them.</p>
<p>So in summary don’t make life into a game of merely meeting women to fuck ‘em and chuck ‘em. I really don’t think that healthy for anyone. However make it a point to get great with women and learn how to make her laugh and how to flirt with her.</p>
<p>Why? So when you meet her there will be no obstacles to get the one that’s right for you! Who knows that monogamous relationship may become the most fulfilling one you will ever have.</p>
<p>Keep on keepin’ on and you too will find the one for you!</p>
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		<title>How To Make Women Comfortable Around You</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 08:19:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dre</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back to sunny California after visiting my folks for Thanksgiving last week and I had a blast. I saw several family friends I haven’t seen in years and pigged out on “dirty water dogs” and pizza for 7 days! Okay enough of going down memory lane lets get back to business at hand here with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Back to sunny California after visiting my folks for Thanksgiving last week and I had a blast. I saw several family friends I haven’t seen in years and pigged out on “dirty water dogs” and pizza for 7 days!</p>
<p>Okay enough of going down memory lane lets get back to business at hand here with today’s post. I want to talk about <strong>making women comfortable around you</strong>.</p>
<p>If you want women to trust you and hang on to you and ultimately sleep with you, you better learn how to make them feel comfortable with you. I know what you are saying how do I do this?</p>
<p><strong>You need to follow three rules here:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>build TRUST</li>
<li>make the girl FEEL SAFE</li>
<li>don&#8217;t be a DOUCHEBAG (be exciting but not phony)</li>
</ul>
<p>Lets break each one down…</p>
<p><strong>Building trust</strong> with a woman just means not bullshitting them and trying so hard. You want to tell them enough but not too much (always add mystery to the mix).</p>
<p><strong>Making her feel safe</strong> is not creeping her out by hovering on top of her, lurking around her or making stupid sexual comments. If you need help with “knowing what to say” with women then you need to get <a title="Flirt Mastery" href="http://www.datingadvicecafe.com/course/flirtmastery.htm" target="_blank">Flirt Mastery</a>. This will literally have you “spittin game” like no other. Trust me – I use the tips in this book!</p>
<p>Last but not least please <strong>don’t be a douchebag</strong>. I’m being serious here I see a ton of guys trying way too hard and trying to be the guy they think they need to be to attract the girl.</p>
<p>In a sense be yourself BUT calibrate your personality so you are the fun, mysterious and confident man in her eyes.</p>
<p>I usually break the ice by asking a question and turning it on her where she opens up. I just sit back smile and relax. You can do exactly the same it’s not that difficult.</p>
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		<title>#1 Conversation Tactic With Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 06:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dre</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey guys – thanks for visiting my blog! I was catching up with an old childhood friend I haven’t seen in 5 years and of course the conversation switched to women. As we were discussing past lays and current women it dawned on me the one thing we do when talking with women. We let [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey guys – thanks for visiting my blog! I was catching up with an old childhood friend I haven’t seen in 5 years and of course the conversation switched to women. As we were discussing past lays and current women it dawned on me the one thing we do when talking with women.</p>
<p>We let them <strong>talk about themselves</strong> &#8211; it’s that easy I promise you.</p>
<p>If you ever get stuck not knowing what to say focus the conversation on her and she’ll take control like Mario Andretti does behind the wheel.</p>
<p>I can’t explain it women LOVE talking about themselves.</p>
<p>It doesn’t matter if you&#8217;re teasing her about something, or discussing a childhood memory, you&#8217;ll receive positive feedback since you are showing interest on what she likes. This also deflects talking too much about yourself leaving your background intel a mystery to her.</p>
<p>As you can see to spark her attraction all you really need to do is <strong>keep the conversation going</strong>. Its not important what you talk about all that matters is how you talk. There come a point where you want to demonstrate some depth, change the topic to your goals in life, travels etc.</p>
<p><strong>***Sidebar***</strong><br />
If you really want ADVANCED information on flirting with women then I recommend you take a look at <a title="Flirt Mastery" href="http://www.datingadvicecafe.com/course/flirtmastery.htm" target="_blank">Flirt Mastery by Steve Scott</a>. This site covers all you need to know about flirting with women.<br />
<strong>*** End Sidebar***</strong></p>
<p>Another great chick-topic to cover is current events in<strong> pop culture</strong>. Women are very current with pop culture so I strongly encourage you to look at <a href="http://www.tmz.com/">www.TMZ.com</a> for ammunition for your conversation. Women love it when men talk about “interesting” topics not boring shit like video games and politics.</p>
<p>Personally my favorite topic is <strong>travelling</strong>. I have so much material to draw from when I went to Europe I can go on and on. Point is that women want a man that is worldly open to new cultures and has some substance to him. If you aren’t “well travelled” then talk about some interesting places you’ve gone to or things you have done.</p>
<p>Here I’ve given you some hot topics to discuss with women. This will help you keep the conversation going and building up that sexual tension. Gook luck guys!!!!</p>
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