I had to put up this post after looking at what my coworker did on his MySapce account.

Yes I was at work screwing around with my buddy on MySpace – so there!

However I wasn’t ready for his move on MySpace that made my cringe in total horror. What was his mistake? He left a comment on some chick’s profile he liked BUT hasn’t yet dated. I totally wanted to knock him upside the head and say what the hell are you doing?

A lot of guys do this but I made him promise from that day forward he’ll never ever do it again. Why – simply because it destroyed his chances with that girl. The reason is simple leaving her a comment you’re basically projecting yourself as a beta male and completely hand her the victory. All the mystery is gone at that point.

She won you over with no effort, you didn’t even put up a challenge. Instead you come off looking like a needy loser in her mind.

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There you have it fellas learn from my friends mistake. Don’t leave stupid comments on her profile if you are interested in her. There is a way to get her attention without appearing like some needy loser.

Keep on keepin on!!

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Wow, it’s good to be back here with you guys – all last week I was battling the cold and the rains here is Sothern California. I hope you guys have been getting out there and meeting women. But most importantly make sure you’re having fun.

Okay for today I want to talk about the types of photos to include in your profile.

1. Out in social settings -  communicates that you are social and like to have fun.
2. With other women -  so you don’t look like a total complete loser.
3. Photos with kids – recommended for guys in the 31 – 38 year old rage it communicates that you are looking to settle down and are serious.
4. On vacation – communicates you are cultured with a worldly view.
5. Activities – includes sailing, skiing, climbing, snowboarding etc.. These types of activities communicate you have a life outside from work and partying.

If you don’t already have some sort of hobby I advise to look for something to do and occupy your time. It’s also a great way to meet women with similar tastes.

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Me personally I started taking guitar lessons and I love it! I’ve always loved music and it’s fun.

I would avoid just having one photo – too bland too boring.

For you guys in the 29 – 39 year old range I recommend a photo of you in a casual sports jacket and button down shirt. (Of course do this if it fits your own personal style, if not then don’t worry about it).

Any idea what is the worst photo to have in your profile?

Drum roll please…..

The one with your shirt off in the mirror. I kid you not I have read profiles of women saying “please don’t email them if you have this photo”.

Please don’t do this don’t make yourself look like a tool. If you are guilty of this then DELETE that photo.

Well there it is use these tips and make your dating profile tell a story. The best way is through the use of photos.

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So you asking yourself what can be easier than meeting women in a bar, club or even a party? Actually there is one way to meet women where you can cherry pick any girl at a glace and choose which you want to say, ‘Hi’ to.

I’m talking online dating and it freakin’ works. A close buddy of mine used it to find his girlfriend and they’ve been dating for two years. A girl I work with in the office says her sister found love online.

Before writing this post I checked my Yahoo! email and I had a couple of unread messages from Plenty of Fish.

Online dating isn’t that hard. I actually used a sneaky trick to come up with my own online profile by spying on the competition.

I’m excited you are reading this post since I’m about to reveal the best way to come up with a killer profile. Use this easy 3-step process and you have a powerful online dating profile that will attract women.

Here are the steps I used:

1. Use Plenty Of Fish for free account and sign up as a single women.
2. Include photo of a hot chick.
3. Write a basic fun profile (I just copied from another girls profile)

Bingo – now I have set up a profile allowing me to spy on the competition.

So now I have guys emailing my fake profile and I’m paying attention to whose profile comes off as strong and confident. I’ll read the profiles and borrow bits and pieces and change it to reflect my own personality.

At the same time I’ll take the best emails that caught my eye and use them to contact the women I’m attracted to.

I did this when I came up with my own Match profile and it worked like a charm. I admit there are ton of terrible profiles but this also taught me what not to write in my profile.

If you want to attract women online you need to have the tools to reel them in and the best way to accomplish this is learning from the pros. There is nothing wrong with borrowing a line here or there. Just use your common sense and don’t copy any profile word for word.

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I want to start off with an apology….

I know this month I have lagged on my postings and my trip to Utah didn’t help. My aim is to be in front of you helping you get better with women. Truth is that I’m behind and that’s not my intention – there is no excuse for being lazy.

Sorry for not keeping to my schedule.

Okay let start with some more tips on texting women.

From my last posting I got several emails asking about some more tips when texting women. Look it’s not that difficult all you have to do really is a couple of things – keep it fun and avoid boring texts.

If there is anything I noticed in particular with young women they LOVE TO TEXT – so much so it’s sickening. I see it all day long with the girls I work with. It’s amazing it seems they get paid to text their girlfriends and boyfriends.

Just think about it for a second, information is disseminated in so many ways now we don’t even have to talk to that person on the phone – texting is an option. The best part about texting is that you can use it to flirt with women and set up dates.

WARNING: There is one catch; you have to refine your texting skills with women because texting women like the average Joe will get you no where.

So what is the secret in texting women? Bantering or flirting with women in a fun playful way. The best thing it’s 10x better than emailing her since it can takes hours even days before she checks it.

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My rules or texting women:

1. I’m a big fan of pet names – sweetie, cuties sugar pie, darling, brat (I use darling the most).
2. Many times I’ll use :) smiley faces.
3. I always try to make her smile with my texts – being too serious will not get you anywhere.
4. Don’t be afraid to flirt with her!

Final note – you can pretty much text her when ever. I like to mass text an invite to meet up after work for drinks to several women and wait for a response. When I do get one to respond all I do it respond back and set up the meet.

Here are just some tips to use when texting women – they also come in handy for those women you don’t get to see very often.

Enjoy and keep on keepin on!

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Hey guys I got a sweet little trick for you to use to make sure you can always land a date on a Friday night that will hopefully lead into making her coffee the following morning. Need I say more?

Okay by this point hopefully you have several phone numbers of women you have been meeting already programmed into your phone.

Needless to say for this to work you need a cell phone and text messaging (women really do text way too much).

Okay basically it involves you sending out a mass text to those women you want to meet up with. You can simply use this text message:

“Let’s grab a drink tonight”

Now these women should all be ones you have been meeting online, bars, clubs, circle of friends etc. It’s as simple as that – as a matter of fact you can do this like a ‘text of the day’ or ‘text of the week’. I’ve done this plenty of times and I’ll usually have a couple of replies.

From there you simply lead her and text back where you want to meet and at what time.

Easy right!

Before I argued to never text a women right after meeting her – I still feel that way (I feel that to leave a lasting impression conversation is key). After that’s done you always want to have them around, let’s face it being alone on a Friday night sucks ass. Always remember that dating is a numbers game – you must always put yourself out there willing to have a good time.

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What a weekend – I helped my buddy and his wife move and you’d be surprised at how much crap two people can store. Seriously!

Anyway back to business. Last week we talked about getting your emails read by the women you are contacting online. Like I mentioned until you perfect them I strongly suggest you email women that are a little outside your area so you don’t burn the ones that are closest to you.

But now you have a couple of women respond to you and you have moved beyond the first or second phone call. Now you have to ball up and ask her out but you don’t want to come off too needy, stupid or like some inexperienced jackass.

So, how do you ask her out without using the words – “Will you go out with me?”

There is one very easy solution. Don’t ask her out! In my opinion you are better off in being direct by saying “Hey, I enjoyed talking with you lets meet up somewhere and get to know one another a little bit better.” For the first meet I suggest a coffee shop.

See – very simple no need for magic one liners or some other lame canned openers. A woman will appreciate a man who’s direct rather some cheesy line she can look right through.

Just remember after a couple of emails you should get her phone number and from there get her to meet you in public. Whatever you do don’t use the word date. There is no need to be nervous at this point, if she responded to your email then she’s interested.

I hope this helps with your online dating success. I open to new ideas and suggestions don’t be shy and share your thoughts!

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I want to introduced you to Nico Simon Princely of Pick Women Up Online He has put together an incredible resource that will show how to attract women online using MySpace. What I like about Nico is that he’s genuine, NOT full of crap like so many other PUA’s polluting the net.

In fact he argues that the absolute #1 place to meet women on line is a site you are probably on already but just never bothered to calibrate it to meet women.

What I walked away with the most is that he gives you all the tricks in crafting the perfect emails and subject lines so they don’t get ignored. This guy really knows his shit when it comes to attracting women online.

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Why is he giving this away for free when he could easily charge for it? Beats the hell out of me – but hey to each his own.

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Again to take advantage of this free offer with no obligation is to visit Pick Up Women Online and subscribe – it’s that easy.

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I get this question all the time from my readers; what is the best photo to upload onto my dating profile?

This is a great question that deserves some further insight and explanation. Whatever you do never take a photo of yourself in the mirror with your cell phone (especially shirtless). I can careless if you have a sixpack you will look like a dumbass. Women don’t really respond to those photos.

However women do respond to photos that tell a story. Take a look below at the types of photos you should have in your profile and you’ll see what I mean.

• Out in social settings
• With other women
• Photos with kids
• On vacation

These are the types of photos you should have in your profile no doubt about it. It shows women you travel. You have a life and travel to certain destinations and you have other women in your life. In other words you paint the picture you are not a loser.

Your profile is meant to uplift you into the man you want to be and the kind of women you want to attract.

For you older guys 28-35 looking to settle down and get married a totally recommend a photo with a baby or child – it shows the women you are interested in settling down and that you are marriage material. More to the point – you like kids.

So there you have it – it’s not that difficult to get photos of yourself in social gatherings just don’t try so hard posing – the idea is to look natural and not artificial.

Take a look at your profile now and review what you are doing wrong – fix it and start attracting women!

Stay tuned for our next posting….

I’m going to introduce you to Nico Simon Princely. He recently came out with this starter kit for attracting women online in particular MySpace. He goes in depth on how to write emails that will get read and also building a MySpace profile that will draw women to it. Best of all it’s this kit is FREE!

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Sup fellas – I hope everyone’s 4th of July was fun and full of successful sets with women. I have to tell you nothing beats the 4th of July in Newport Beach, CA. Basically it’s one big block party down in the “warzone” – only thing it’s house after house for at least 30 blocks!

It was just non-stop partying, bikini babes, skateboarding, music, beer bongs, bikes, more babes!

Okay back to business I’m having flashbacks!

This seems to be a problem with online dating sites especially the free ones out there. There you are in front of the screen scanning profiles of these lucky young ladies you are about to contact, and there seems to be something fishy with the profile you just read.

The photo is an absolute 10 and she is beautiful – looks as though the photo was professionally done. But you want your Barbie and you shoot off an email.

Then you get a bullcrap response like this one:

“Thanks for the email sweetie but I have a boyfriend – anyway checkout this awesome new ______ for just $100 bucks”

Or even better it’s from an escort service or some porn site. Here are my tips for avoiding these fake profiles.

1. The photo looks like that of a model
2. She only has 1 photo
3. There is almost no text in her profile
4. The no photo, no info profile (done to take advantage of free trial)

Those are my top 4 warning signs of fake profiles you must avoid. Nothing irritates me more than wasting my time with a fraudulent profile only to be spammed.

Please be careful out there. To my female readers – YOU especially take note of the bullshit some guys will try to write on their profile to attract you. If it sounds to good to be true, it usually is.

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Okay guys word of warning here about using templates when emailing women on any dating site – don’t do it.

I seriously screwed up this week while checking out some Match profiles and decided to email some cute women I found. I decided to write a quick email to the lucky ten I found. Seems pretty easy right?

Keep reading……

I read one of the profiles and this girl mentioned she was from NYC. Well I am also from the Big Apple and naturally I commented on that and included a short blurb in the template. Mistake #1

Off the email goes and now I move on to the second profile and include a P.S. about her love of art. Seems like I’m reading about her and being sincere right?

WRONG!

I forgot to remove the NYC blurb from the first profile I read and now she is going to be confused reading my email. Now I look like a complete douchebag, will these women respond to my emails? Probably not.

What makes this so bad is that I did this to three of the ten profiles I checked out. What a disaster!!

Learn from my mistake don’t do this!!!!! Take the time to read the profile and use something they mentioned from their profile to include in the subject and especially the body of your email. Put a twist on it to make it flirty and fun.

I went against this golden rule just because I was in a hurry. I just shook my head in disbelief when I realized my error.

Rules for emailing women you find on dating sites:

1. Don’t use a template
2. Read the profile
3. Comment on their profile in your email
4. Make it flirty and fun
5. The subject line must stand out – (refer to rule 3 or 4)
6. Rinse and repeat with next profile

Side Bar: Never ever write “Hiya Sexy”, “You look hot”, “Wanna get freaky” or “Hey Babe” in your subject line. You will only look stupid.

Final Thought: Am I saying that you should never ever use templates – No. However use with caution and whatever you do read the damn profile. Use her profile to flirt with her and make it fun when you email her.

A template is good for ideas but when it comes right down to it, tailor it to each profile individually.

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