I have another video I found from Kezia I have to share with you about nice guys. I talked about this before but to hear it from a woman is more important.

She hits the nail on the head by saying nice guys come off, “bland, forgettable and replaceable”.

OUCH!!

Watch this video:  Truth About Nice Guys

Basically when taking to women you are marketing yourself. All this talk of “be yourself” is NOT good enough for many women. Let’s get one thing straight, as a human being there is nothing wrong with “nice guy” but women find them boring when it comes to attraction.

They provide no spark, no impact and make no sexual escalation in the conversation.

I myself suffered through the whole nice guy syndrome for years. I think at the heart of it I’m a nice guy – it’s the way I was raised. It simply carried over to my interactions with women.

Guys I’m telling you, drop the whole “nice guy” routine. STOP ‘being yourself’ when you meet women.

When women say “just be yourself” it’s 100% BULLSHIT. They never go for the nice guy – ever!  They always go for the guy that’s edgy, funny and exciting. I can care less what they say, I’ve heard it over and over and I see the same girls go for the guy opposite of what they described.

The girls that do go for nice guys are the 35 year olds and older who have already went through a string of dirt bags and all they really want is a nice guy at that point. 

Women are governed by their emotions.  They guys that are successful with women are the ones who can excite women and create that spark.

How did they do that? They did a better job at marketing themselves that you did.

Keep on keepin on…
 
~ Dre

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I want to talk about something I see a lot of men suffering from. A condition afflicting many men in the US particularly in large urban areas. For any normal man who have self-confidence and avoid trying to be someone else usually look in disdain and laughter.

So what is exactly a DB? Simply put it’s a douchebag. Yep the douchebag has been gaining ground and more and more men are falling victim to this horrible condition.

If you’re from Southern California in the Newport Beach / Huntington Beach area you know and seen the type: the tattooed tough guy wearing his Ed Hardy or Affliction t-shirt thinking he’s Tito Ortiz looking to fight someone way smaller than he is.

Let’s examine the photo below for a more detailed look on what the typical douchebag looks like.

Are you one of these men? Be honest with yourself…..are you really?

Okay as you can see I was having fun and today I feel like venting – these guys are hilarious to watch. I’ve seen guys that will adopt this attitude and look just so they will attract girls.

Look I will be the 1st to say I’m all for self improvement but NEVER PRETEND to be something that you are not. Seriously don’t be that guy!

Strength comes from within and not from an image or looking like someone else to fit in. That is weak sauce – lesson here is to be your own man.

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I can’t believe how many emails I got from yesterdays post about online dating in particular the coupon/promotion codes for Match.com.

Well I was able to find some additional promotion codes for two really great online dating sites:

Promotional Codes:

Join Lavalife.com: Get 7 Days FREE

Match.com 7-day Free Trial

Instructions:

1. Click the above link and sign up for a Match.com or Lavalife.com account.
2. Your promotion code is automatically entered when you use the above link. The free 7-day trial must be cancelled before the end of the third day to avoid billing.
3. Log on an start meeting women.

That’s it – very simple to sign up and I coughed up some promotional coupon codes for you to use. I urge that you take full advantage of this offer since in the long run it will save you money.

Look I myself have been putting in more time on Match just because it works – and when I do contact some luck lady who is interested I just meet her over coffee.

I for one love coffee dates. You can learn a lot from a person over a cup of java and a scone. No need to point out the obvious here but you won’t spend a ton of money “taking her out” as well. No more wasted time and money on dinners that get you no where.

For those of you not looking to join a dating site there is MySpace. There is a killer course that will seriously boost your dating numbers into overdrive. The Matchbook Method is specifically meant for you to turn your MySpace profile into a super charged dating profile and it comes with “cut & paste” email samples you can use.

There you have it – all the necessary tools to meet more women. It’s a great way to hook up with hot women and more importantly improve your game.

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