It’s a simple question – are you suffering from the male fantasy? What I mean is do you sit or stand passively in the hopes that a woman will for some reason find you cute and just approach you and start talking?

Sorry but unless you are a well know actor or sports celebrity this will never happen to you. Let me repeat that never – ever.

It doesn’t matter why, social rules, gender roles – whatever it may it’s up to us guys to make the first move.

Just accept that simple fact and move on and whatever you do don’t blame women or society.

It may sound ridiculous but this weekend when you are out there in the bar, check out the scene. Just look at how many dudes are standing there talking big and yet it’s with each other! You will notice a lot of guys not approaching women.

Good grief!

I used to suffer from this stupid fantasy myself. I thought that by wearing pheromone cologne and wearing nice cloths would have women mysteriously walking up to me. I’m not exaggerating – I actually did this.

If you find yourself performing behaviors when your out to ‘get noticed’ by women in the hopes they will walk up to you – STOP! Get away from that beta male frame of mind and just approach.

Enjoy your weekend and meet some women.

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