I want to kick the weekend off with this simple yet effective concept with you! As you may have already learned women are not attracted to men who are “weak”, “pussies” or “losers”. They are however attracted to men who display strong social skills and are secure with themselves.

They don’t ask for permission or ask her what she would rather do. He isn’t rude but confident – women are simply attracted to confident men. So how can a man take charge confidently without being rude? Start by showing a little leadership when you are with women.

For example:

Her: So where do you want t go?
You: I don’t know…..what do you want to do?

This is not good and probably one of the worst things you can do as a man. You are displaying absolutely zero confidence. The trick is to plan ahead just a little.

Her: So where do you want to go?
You: We’re going to this great little coffee shop with the best pastries near my house – you’ll love it.

That is what successful guys do. He’s never rude nor does he try to impose his will on other people. Now which would you rather be….the loser guy or the successful guy? It’s entirely up to you.

It’s so easy to take the lead with women when you are out on a date or setting up a date. All it takes is a little planning and you’ll appear to on top of your game. I personally use the “OC Weekly” to look for new music venues, night spots etc. to pick up women or to taker a girl on a date. Its super easy and really doesn’t take that much effort.

Now that you have learned this new tip, use it the next time you plan a date and take charge! Show her you are confident and secure and she’ll be more attracted to you as opposed to the loser guy that does not.

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