I want to talk about killing your anxiety when approaching women with this training tip I want to share. It works because I did this same tactic to get over my fears and to be honest I still do it just to stay razor sharp.

Most of the dating and getting laid courses never talk about this. Helping you get over the hump when approaching women and destroying that mental block. All they do is give you some openers to approach women without doing one thing first.

That one thing is practice! You have to practice with women in order to get good.

For the most part your brain is preventing you from acting out of fear because you are outside your comfort level.

Let be honest you may not have too much experience with women. When you see women you are attracted to – you freeze up. You are uncomfortable approaching her and you constantly avoid those situations. It’s like a broken record it just happens over and over again.

Be honest how man times have you said – “Man I wish I would have asked her out” or “Man I wish I could have the balls to say something”

So how do you get over this hump? PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE!

How do you practice? By actually approaching women you are not attracted to! That’s right approach women you are not attracted to and make a quick conversation / comment and exit.

You need to train yourself not to be nervous in these situations. You accomplish this by training yourself with women in the 4 – 5 on the beauty scale to get over the hump of approaching. If you ever want to meet hot men or those 9’s and 10’s you first need to have approached those 4’s or 5’s.

Okay so where do you meet 4’s and 5’s to practice?

• Supermarkets
• Coffee shops
• Shopping mall
• Anywhere you see a ‘plain jane’ just fucking say something!!

It doesn’t have to be too complicated. If you are at the market and she’s holding a bottle of wine say “You are really going to enjoy that wine” wait for a quick response from her and go. That’s it. I still do this exercise just so I can stay sharp and never have that fear creep up on me. It’s more out of habit now but it works and I want you to use it.

Alright guys I gave you some training wheels – now you need to use them it’s all up to you.

Keep on keepin on…
 
~ Dre

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