After my last post I was thinking about what I wrote in regard to my successful pick up last week at my local restaurant that was hosting their weekly Wednesday night “wine night”.

I didn’t explain “what” my conversations were I had with this girl I was talking to. A lot of guys run into the brick wall of not knowing what to talk about with women. Sparking the interest and grabbing her attention.

The 4 rules when starting a conversation with women:

1. Have several stories handy that you can roll off your tongue at a moments notice. I draw my own experiences in life from my travels, my college days or just plain stories I have from hanging with my friends. TIP: Have a number of stories and always use humor to tell story. Make it funny and make her laugh.
2. Be current on pop culture – women love gossip to logon to TMZ.com and just read through the celebrity gossip bullshit and you have a conversation right there.
3. Cold Reading this can be done very easily by saying something like “You don’t seem like every other girl here which is a relief, I can’t stand phony people”. Cold reading doesn’t have to be complicated. For the record I’m no fan of magic tricks or palm reading. I think cold reads work far better.
4. Lifeline – your lifeline is to be used when you feel you are running out topics. So look to your surroundings and look things to talk about. Perhaps you are see one guy being a total drunk ass and making a jerk out of himself. There’s your new conversation starter!

The most important thing is to focus on your conversations is emotions! Remember women are just more emotional than men so discussing politics and Star Wars are just plain bad.

I hope this helps you in your next date and remember the #1 rule – HAVE FUN!

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