I want to share with you a really harsh lesson I learned a few years ago when I was a novice in picking up women. You may have heard of the so called “eye test” where by a women is glancing at you more then once. It’s a surefire indicator that she is without a doubt interested in you.

But there is one catch – you have to take action right away and approach her. If not she’ll assume you aren’t interested and she will focus on something or someone else. She is giving off “IoI” (indicators of interest) and it’s your job to pick up on that and do something.

Seems perfectly logical correct?

Here is what I did and vowed never to repeat ever again:

I friend of mine invited me to a sports bar so I agreed to go for a drink. The bar was okay with normal looking people nothing real special. Anyway I noticed the girl working behind the bar was freaking hot.

She was about 5’5 nice body and stacked with huge boobies. On top of that she had a short haircut like Demi Moore in “Ghost”.

Needless to say she fit my ideal mold – fair skin, thin, huge boobies and short hair. Aside from that she was glancing at me from time to time and I realized that it was me and no one else.

But we were in a bar so here she is busy with other customers and I was too preoccupied with trying to figure something clever to say. Like a fool I repeated this same pathetic song and dance several times going to the bar and not making a move.

After a while I just looked like a weirdo to her and probably creeped her out. It goes without saying she wasn’t glancing at me any longer.

Do you have any idea of what a pathetic loser I felt for not having the nuts to get up and say something? I felt like the biggest pussy.

Over the years I have been to other bars, clubs, or just plain social gatherings and have noticed women glancing at me. This time I made the effort not to pass that opportunity up.

Lesson here is that the ‘eye test’ does work and you are almost guaranteed not to be rejected. The next time you are out with friends and some cute girl is checking you out, get off your ass and approach her.

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