I want to take a minute and talk to you guys that are dating eBook junkies that buy every course out there on dating and then do nothing with it. I was one of those dummies that would buy a book, read what I was doing wrong, agree with the author and do nothing.

Let’s face it there is no substitute then actually getting out there and put to practice what you learn. Sure you may stumble a bit but what do you expect?

There are no magic words or pills that will make you instantly attractive. It’s a total waste of your time to accumulate all this knowledge and not use it.

You can read and listen to all the dating material you want but it will not do a thing to your game unless you go out and practice! Generally speaking your biggest fear is the blow to your ego if she rejects you. The fear is there because you probably don’t have a lot of experience so your skills are weak.

All guys start out that way! Leave your fears behind you and start living life.

Here is a quick tip in meeting and dating more women:

• Create an action plan
• Improve your game
• Improve your outward appearance

Creating an action plan – entails you goal setting and I highly recommend that you start small with the goal. Simply put if the goal is to get on Match.com and set up your online dating profile – then do it. Also 3-4 days out of the week search the profiles and contact women you want to meet.

If you are really shy your goal should be to get out of the house. Perhaps eat out 3 nights a week. Do it enough times until you are comfortable around women.

Improve your game – with all these eBooks you’ve downloaded use them! Start to really absorb what they are teaching. My personal favorite is Flirt Mastery which incredible resource for men.

Improve your outward appearance – is basically hitting the gym, updating your wardrobe, and maybe changing your haircut. This is the easy part and you don’t have to spend a lot of money to pull it off. A word about changing your look – I’m no fan of peacocking. Personally I think it’s a waste of time just ask yourself; are you remaining true to yourself by doing so?

This is all meant to give you little successes along the way and boost your self confidence. This gradual build up of your self confidence will develop into a very strong inner game and powerful self esteem.

Is it difficult? YES it is because that voice in your head says you are a loser. But remember one thing – that voice is all in your head and it’s a lie. It’s you that will make it true if you agree with it.

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