How was your weekend? Did you go out have a good time and approach a woman that caught your eye?

If you did then congratulations, you are taking the necessary first steps to rid yourself of those fears of women that have held you back for so long. Today I want to talk about something that happens to many men when approaching women.

The Dreaded Bitch Shield

You know what I’m talking about, you are talking to her but she seems totally oblivious and looking off to the side not really paying attention to you. Trust me when I say it’s not that she is a total bitch because she isn’t. She is simply defending herself from every Tom, Dick and Harry hitting on her wasting her time with stupid one-liners displaying low social value.

If you attempt to open her with canned one liners or you are displaying way too much interest her bitch shield will be up. Especially attractive women, they are constantly hit on by men so they are on full alert.

This used to happen to me all the time I simply didn’t know how to flirt with women. I can remember when I was in the club I would see a girl by the bar or by the lounge and I would ask her to dance.

Could you believe that! That’s how weak my game was. I had to do something radically different so I would like someone worthy of her attention.

So what did I do different? My approach changed when my intent changed. Basically instead of coming off like – “I want to meet you and practice making babies”. My intent was to not show any interest nor hit on her.

You must disarm that bitch shield because if not you will be locked out from further conversation. Your best weapon against this is skillful flirting. In the beginning my favorite tactic was to be with a group of friends (I still wasn’t comfortable to open by myself) and to mesh in with a group of women. I would then open up conversation with my targets girlfriends first and actually playfully tease my intended target.

In a short period of time I saw far better results from showing no interest and not displaying any interest. The funny thing is that it really does work.

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