Back to sunny California after visiting my folks for Thanksgiving last week and I had a blast. I saw several family friends I haven’t seen in years and pigged out on “dirty water dogs” and pizza for 7 days!

Okay enough of going down memory lane lets get back to business at hand here with today’s post. I want to talk about making women comfortable around you.

If you want women to trust you and hang on to you and ultimately sleep with you, you better learn how to make them feel comfortable with you. I know what you are saying how do I do this?

You need to follow three rules here:

• build TRUST
• make the girl FEEL SAFE
• don’t be a DOUCHEBAG (be exciting but not phony)

Lets break each one down…

Building trust with a woman just means not bullshitting them and trying so hard. You want to tell them enough but not too much (always add mystery to the mix).

Making her feel safe is not creeping her out by hovering on top of her, lurking around her or making stupid sexual comments. If you need help with “knowing what to say” with women then you need to get Flirt Mastery. This will literally have you “spittin game” like no other. Trust me – I use the tips in this book!

Last but not least please don’t be a douchebag. I’m being serious here I see a ton of guys trying way too hard and trying to be the guy they think they need to be to attract the girl.

In a sense be yourself BUT calibrate your personality so you are the fun, mysterious and confident man in her eyes.

I usually break the ice by asking a question and turning it on her where she opens up. I just sit back smile and relax. You can do exactly the same it’s not that difficult.

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