Chivalry – ah yes the age old practice of opening doors or helping with her jacket etc. seems like something of the past. You really don’t see too much of that and we have the feminist movement to thank for that.

Of course it’s just my opinion but hear me out. Women got sick and tired of being treated like 2nd class citizens and demanded equal rights – that’s okay.

Then your die hard feminist decided to make it a point and even got offended when men would offer the door or pull out a chair and so on. They simply didn’t want to be treated any different just because they were women.

More and more women are in schools and working in high level jobs giving them far greater independence then the women a generation before. However at the same time this modern progression distorted the perception of young boys and how they should treat girls. With gender roles changes ever so rapidly chivalry seems like something of the past.

Which brings us back to the question….Is Chivalry Really Necessary These Days?

The answer is there is never a time NOT to show good manners. To put it bluntly there is nothing wrong with being chivalrous. However I will argue that you should never make it a point to be chivalrous and make a scene. I am chivalrous but I offer it in doses. I don’t do it all the time so she gets used to it, but just enough so she can appreciate every time.

So the next time you with your women or on a first date even – open that door or offer your arm when walking down the street.

I’m willing to bet big she hasn’t had that in a long time. For those thinking that a true “bad boy” wouldn’t be chivalrous to a woman. You are wrong! Bad Boys are the way they are because they challenge women stirring up their emotional buttons. They aren’t jerks to women.

Let me repeat “bad boys” aren’t jerks to women. A true bad boy will still open the door for his women. He is challenging her and at the same time protecting her making her feel safe. Now that is a lethal seduction combination!

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