Wow what a weekend and it’s still not over!! This past Saturday was my friends bachelor party and I must admit it was a ton of fun. All of us basically celebrating his leap forward into a new phase in his life.

Bro I wish you and your new women the best man!!

I want to talk about something to you guys about how some men seem to have women just wrapped around their fingers and at the same time it looks as though they don’t even make an effort or try.

Essentially that is the secret sauce so to speak – all they do is act aloof and not call them every 5 minutes. 

You want to primarily communicate you are a mystery to women. That is your #1 weapon because you are letting her know you have your own life and you have options other than her.

Yes I know you want to go in your life story and spill the beans on all you accomplished and what a great catch you are. But that’s where most guys go wrong and screw it all up. Let her FILL IN THE BLANKS. In short don’t be too candid as to how you spend your free time – instead deflect and ask her questions.

In sales there’s an old saying – he who asks the questions is in control.

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That old saying couldn’t be more true – you want to ask questions about what she likes to do (women love talking about themselves) and now it’s the perfect time to inject humor and playfully tease her on what she reveals to you.

Don’t get me wrong she will ask you questions as well but answer some of them and again don’t reveal your entire background.

Okay guys I hope this will sink in the next time you are talking with women – my usual strategy is to ask them questions and tease them every so often based on what they say. It’s really not that hard and it works.

As for me I’m going to hit the guym in the next hour and head over to a BBQ this afternoon. Until next time – keep on keepin on!!

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