I don’t have too much time for this post. Seems like hackers are wrecking havoc with Time Warner and my internet connection is real buggy.

I want to talk about getting over your nervousness around women; first off it’s not going to be easy. Believe me I should know I was one of those guys. Basically in the 10 seconds it would have taken me to walk up to her and open her I would have a flood of self-defeating thoughts already telling me to turn back its no use.

I had no self confidence with women and it was painful – I mean painful. After a while I began to use that pain to basically motivate myself in doing something about it.

One day I pictured myself in my 40’s and 50’s alone with a cat and no woman or children to speak of. How pathetic is that?

That was the kick in the ass I needed to basically make a change. Now I admit I messed up a lot and embarrassed myself using lame pick up lines but I always used that pathetic old man image to keep the motivation going.

You can use this same technique for your own motivation. Just focus on the person you don’t want to be by visualizing a pathetic old loser.

I found that visualization was the best technique getting over my nervousness around women. The sheer idea that would be a lonely old man was too much for me too accept and I was pissed. Who wants to me that guy?

Recently you may have noticed I written several posts on boosting your self confidence around women. There are courses out there that do tackle this issue but none really expose the roots of low self esteem and low self confidence.

Carlos Xuma’s latest course “Ultimate Inner Game” is by far the most in depth course on tackling low self confidence I’ve seen.

Listen carefully here! I don’t endorse crap to make a buck but this guy knows his stuff. If you truly want to get to the root of the problem and control your thinking around women there is no better course.

Carlos Xuma is the real deal when it comes to matters on dating and if you have self confidence issues and find it difficult to meet women or to be in social situations then “Ultimate Inner Game” is for you.

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