I want to pick up from my post Pickup Is Getting Really Overrated, from early this week and share with you what I think are some of the better dating guides to follow and who to trust.

It seems that there are way too many people simply jumping in on the band wagon and putting out a seduction ebook. I’ve read many of these and to put it bluntly most suck donkey balls. You can almost see how most of these gurus are just savvy marketers looking to cash in.

Here is my list of the top 5 relationship experts:
Carlos Xuma – very down to Earth and knows women
Scot McKay - X & Y Communications
Paul Janka – incredible day game expert
Steve Scott - a natural born flirt
Joseph Matthews – Art of approaching very good beginner course

Again this is my list and the only guys that I would subscribe or consider buying anything from. The rest out there is nothing more than re-hashed material. 

Of the list if you want a complete source of how to guides with women then Carlos Xuma is probably the best (especially for inner game and confidence).

One of my new favorites is Paul Janka – his day game technique is simple and awesome. There are no stupid magic tricks, made up stories or bull shit. He is simply being straight forward and in 30 seconds getting a chick to meet him for coffee. Dr. Phil even interviewed his ass!

Why did I choose these 5? From what I’ve seen they consistently deliver on their product(s) and they know what they are talking about when it comes to dating and women. The rest seems to borrow from them and put out “new” material.

I hope this short list helps and remember the whole goal in pick up is to develop your own style. Don’t try to memorize every word these gurus say.  Just understand the basics and the main idea and develop on that and make it your own.

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