Hi guys I hope you enjoyed your weekend – I made great use of my Sunday Funday today catching a few drinks with friends mingling with some great looking women and watching the Lakers beat the Rockets.

I want to talk to you about one thing I see a lot of guys trying to become or aspiring to.

The Player

Yes I’m talking about that guy whose only goal is to get laid no matter what. There was even a reality show with 25 meatheads all believing they were the #1 “player”. One episode was enough for me to hate all reality shows for good.

Lets get one thing clear: there is nothing to admire from players. As stated before his only goal is to get laid and that’s it. Players are constantly on the prowl for any woman stupid enough to fall for their bullshit line and take them home.

I have known a couple of these guys myself and they were incredibly selfish to the point they would even cock block their buddies and hit on their women!

These player type guys are never happy with the woman they are with and thus don’t keep them for long. He just goes through them like potato chips, one after the other. Players devote so much time in trying to hookup they neglect other areas of their life.

I actually think it’s better to be a badboy than a player. Badboys challenge women and never compromise who they are. Badboys operate from a completely different mindset where their happiness isn’t how many women he can sleep with. Never confuse a badboy with a jerk. Jerks are just meatheads that generally disrespect women and oddly enough they will never attract the quality woman they would like to have.

Ultimately women will reject the “player” type for the challenging badboy that can spark that emotional fire.

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