Here is a lesson I learned some time ago so I thought I share my experiences with you. This can also apply to all the women readers of this blog as well.

Choosing the right women to date and be involved with seems like a daunting task but in reality it doesn’t have to be. Here is a lesson I want you to learn:

My story…
A few years ago I was working at an office with this Filipino chick who stood about 5’8 with a big fake tits and a curvy ass. Of course I thought she was hot so I took an interest but I was thinking more with my junk and not my brain.

Anyway I’m dating this chick and I begin to learn she had a rotten relationship with both her mom and stepdad and hated being around them. That’s a big red flag. Even though she had a rockin body she was still insecure and preferred to have sex with lights out.

A couple of months roll by and her behavior got worse I was calling her out but by then I truthfully wanted to part with her.

The moral of the story avoid women with low self-esteem. Steer Clear From This Type Of Woman!

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That’s basically it! It sounds so simple but so many guys fall for the “damn she’s hot” trap. If you are dating a women and she’s hot it is easy to ask about her family life – that you can discover by simply observing.

I committed the #1 error made by men: concentrating too hard on her looks.

In the case of my ex she had no father to speak of and hated her step-father. So right off the bat she does have some underlying issues with men. All that does is translate into low self-esteem.

For those in your twenties you probably are thinking about simply “hooking up” with as many women as possible. That’s okay but just avoid the following situations:

1. Falling in love with your first girlfriend and marrying her
2. Getting her pregnant (that’s an 18 year sentence)

Personally I’m in a time in my life where I want to find a special woman to settle down with and get married. I have some minor criteria that I’m unwilling to let go for instance:

• She must be close with both her mom and her dad.
• Have a strong faith in God
• She also needs to have an education
• Shows respect to others around her

I don’t think I’m asking for a whole lot here with this short list. Those are my core values and I want that in my partner as well.

Call me crazy!

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