Sorry guys for not having posted this sooner, my internet connection was out yesterday. I love when you are doing something important online and the internet connection decides to take a poop!

I want to talk to you guys about a big problem a lot of you are facing. Comparing yourself to other people with the idea you will be happier or more successful.

 Is there a friend in particular you envy wishing you were just like him? Is it because he seems to be a total natural with women and he gets all the attention when you go out? Do you find yourself constantly comparing yourself to him? Are you always trying to catch up to your friends in what they do?

STOP IT!!

Stop paying attention to what other people are doing it’s flat out destructive to your self confidence. All you wind up doing is getting caught in that rat race and you’ll never be satisfied.

Focus on what makes you happy and be your own man. There is nothing worse than being a carbon copy of someone else. Be a leader and not a follower – women will respect your more for your independence.

That’s all for now until then, be yourself and learn to let go of all the negative thoughts that tell you “She’ll never like you”. Remember what I taught in my previous post. Take a step back and literally talk trash to that negative inner voice and wipe it from your mind. Get into the habit of positive thinking.

Yeah I know it sounds like psycho-babble but think about it for a second. Those guys that are successful with women almost all have a positive outlook on life in general. Women pick up on that and that’s the “sexy vibe” women feel.

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