I don’t know about you but I’m melting in my townhome! For some reason I’m thinking that August is gearing up to be a nasty one.

Okay back to my question; When do you think it’s time to impress her?

Never! Don’t ever adopt the mindset that you need to impress women, once you do you already lost the interaction. You’ll be too preoccupied with what to say, what to wear, what to do – you’ll never be able to just relax.

The “I have to impress” her mindset is one of insecurity and it will show through your actions.

Do you see what will happen? That mindset will drag you down and she will notice every insecure move you make destroying your chances with her. Trust me when I say women notice every word, action and the slightest change in your body language.

The mindset you must adopt when you are around her is not to give a rat’s ass what other people think. Stop worrying what she will think instead have the attitude that “this is who I am take it or leave it.”

Case in point I had a buddy of mine that made good money and let everyone know that he made beaucoup bucks. He also made sure he took he first dates to fancy restaurants buying them dinners. Here’s the problem dinners is a losing proposition. You are sitting mostly eating and not talking, limited interaction and you are stuck with the bill with the hopes of getting laid.

So here is my friend trying to impress his date with an expensive dinner and he’s getting nowhere. Dinners are for serious girlfriends and wives – remember that!

Start adopting the attitude that you don’t need to impress anyone and have the attitude – “This is me you don’t like it too bad.”

As soon as you let go of your insecurities you’ll see your self confidence increase exponentially and your success with women.

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