Asking a girl out can be really nerve wracking simply because you don’t want to get rejected. No man wants to be rejected so it’s important not to let her frame it as a date.

When you ask a girl out on a date you automatically convey interest and she will be on guard. What if it’s a girl that you will continually see? (Like that girl in your class or a chick you work with). Then it’s going to make things weird between you both.

Luckily there is a way to catch her off guard and make it totally innocent.

I use one method with a lot of success by “inviting” her to day time lunch, house party, after work for drinks with friends etc.

All you are really doing is inviting her with you to something you already planned to do. You look like a guy that does fun stuff and she’s coming along for the ride.

If you are planning to meet up with friends for drinks on a Saturday afternoon by the beach to watch the big game – invite her along. (This works great if she’s a sports fan)

Suppose you are going to an outdoor fair with friends you can use the same “invite” tactic. As far as how to ask her it can be something like: “We are going to the fair to check out this really cool band that is playing — why don’t you come along, it will be fun.”

It’s that simple! Just customize to whatever you are doing it doesn’t matter if she declines. You are going anyway and it doesn’t sound like a ‘date’. You can use this sneaky dating tactic in just about any situation – you’ll get a lot more dates this way.

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