So what do you think guys is it better to have many lovers and be “that guy” that get them all or find that one lucky chick you will be with for a long time?

It actually comes down to a matter of choice. Let’s face it if you want to me the ultimate player than that’s up to you. However I’ll be upfront I think a monogamous relationship is the best thing you can have.

You’ll hear from other PUA’s and player that having many, many, many women is simply natural and unavoidable. I disagree with that statement 100%

First off, we have evolved enough where we don’t have to spread our seed everywhere and secondly having multiple women can actually backfire on you (if you aren’t careful). Not too many women with a strong sense of self will trust a man that’s been let’s say a 100 women. In fact they may not find him to be ‘husband’ material.

I am a proponent of getting great with women and dating several of them so you know what you want when you finally meet her.

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I think it’s important that men learn how to become that guy women desire. In an age of political correctness, women’s liberation and lack of strong male role models many men have lost their natural maleness. Sounds weird but it’s true. There is just so much wrong information and bullshit – lets face it for many guys they are clueless. Hell, I was one of them.

So in summary don’t make life into a game of merely meeting women to fuck ‘em and chuck ‘em. I really don’t think that healthy for anyone. However make it a point to get great with women and learn how to make her laugh and how to flirt with her.

Why? So when you meet her there will be no obstacles to get the one that’s right for you! Who knows that monogamous relationship may become the most fulfilling one you will ever have.

Keep on keepin’ on and you too will find the one for you!

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