Hi guys hope you all had an amazing Thanksgiving this week. It’s easy to lose site of all the things we have in life and focus too much on what we don’t have. First step in a positive mindset is to focus on what you have a re-script it in a positive light.

Now I want to talk about something I see more and more on Match.com and POF. It’s when you decide to send an email to that lucky gal and you write something bland and boring like:

Subject: “Hi”

Body: “From your profile you seem like a positive, genuine, down to earth girl. I’d like to get to know you a little more – you just seem more than what you put on your profile. Looking forward to chatting with you…”

Okay the first thing wrong is the subject line – “Hi” or “What’s Sup” simply doesn’t work. Remember one thing these women are getting bombarded with emails and the first thing they see is the subject line.

You need to set yourself apart right away and that means putting some thought into that email.

***Sidebar***Unless if you’re an actor or singer please don’t email your phone number. Do you really expect her to call you or text you? Just save yourself the wasted time to hit send.
*** End Sidebar***

Why am I saying this? I see more and more profiles from women that are requesting potential guys not to say “Hi”, “Sup” or “How’s it going”

I have read it right there at the end of their profiles – they are begging men not to do that and be a little more original. Okay so how do you overcome this? Read her profile and point something out and use it in the subject line – I use that tactic all the time and it works. It shows them you read their profile.

That it for now – Keep on keepin on…

~ Dre

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