I have another video I found from Kezia I have to share with you about nice guys. I talked about this before but to hear it from a woman is more important.

She hits the nail on the head by saying nice guys come off, “bland, forgettable and replaceable”.

OUCH!!

Watch this video:  Truth About Nice Guys

Basically when taking to women you are marketing yourself. All this talk of “be yourself” is NOT good enough for many women. Let’s get one thing straight, as a human being there is nothing wrong with “nice guy” but women find them boring when it comes to attraction.

They provide no spark, no impact and make no sexual escalation in the conversation.

I myself suffered through the whole nice guy syndrome for years. I think at the heart of it I’m a nice guy – it’s the way I was raised. It simply carried over to my interactions with women.

Guys I’m telling you, drop the whole “nice guy” routine. STOP ‘being yourself’ when you meet women.

When women say “just be yourself” it’s 100% BULLSHIT. They never go for the nice guy – ever!  They always go for the guy that’s edgy, funny and exciting. I can care less what they say, I’ve heard it over and over and I see the same girls go for the guy opposite of what they described.

The girls that do go for nice guys are the 35 year olds and older who have already went through a string of dirt bags and all they really want is a nice guy at that point. 

Women are governed by their emotions.  They guys that are successful with women are the ones who can excite women and create that spark.

How did they do that? They did a better job at marketing themselves that you did.

Keep on keepin on…
 
~ Dre

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